Looking to speak to other jack-offs who have tried to stop, but after a few days or a period of time, are just drawn back in and jack-off more intensely than ever?
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I have tried and it lasted for 2 weeks. I think it is more addicting than a crack habit. I had a big mess to clean up after that two week abstinence. Even after marriage, we still crave our time with our hand.
Not really.
I've never considered that would be "for good".
I've never considered that would be "for good".
Why?
Bare and hard.
Funny you should post this now. About a month ago I started trying to stop. I began to feel as if I was devoting way to much time to masturbation. I have only partly successful. In the last month I've gone from 2 or 3 times 5 days a week to less than an hour weekly with no orgasms. Today was a hard day (forgive the pun) Woke with my hand around my hard cock and got on a cam site. Still didn't let myself cum though. I'll text you.
ok you're 26 (according to the profile) and I'm more than twice your age. I masturbate more now than I did when I was your age. When I was in my 20s and 30s I didn't masturbate three times a day but now I do.
I've also thought that it was ruining my life in the way that a drug addiction ruins lives, but worse because we think it's free. Problem with that is everything comes (pun intended) with a cost. You might say there's no financial impact to masturbating for four hours or more every day, but there is. I could lose my job over this because when I'm supposed to be working all I can think about is porn and masturbating. I cum and I'm ok for a little while but soon enough, for no apparent reason, I'm surfing porn again looking for something to which I can masturbate.
For me that's the real problem; internet porn. Before porn was free and before I had a high-speed internet connection, I would read Penthouse Forum or just look at the pictures. Sometimes I would watch a video tape of some porn I had bought from a catalog. Each of these would occur infrequently and for the most part all my masturbation happened in bed. I would get home from my job and sometimes get naked and jump into bed to rub myself until I came. Now I'm sitting at the computer all day for my work and there is very little keeping me from pulling my cock out and stroking to some hot video online.
So I've tried to stop, or just do it less often, but until I am away from this damn drug dealer of the internet, I don't see myself kicking the habit anytime soon.
I've also thought that it was ruining my life in the way that a drug addiction ruins lives, but worse because we think it's free. Problem with that is everything comes (pun intended) with a cost. You might say there's no financial impact to masturbating for four hours or more every day, but there is. I could lose my job over this because when I'm supposed to be working all I can think about is porn and masturbating. I cum and I'm ok for a little while but soon enough, for no apparent reason, I'm surfing porn again looking for something to which I can masturbate.
For me that's the real problem; internet porn. Before porn was free and before I had a high-speed internet connection, I would read Penthouse Forum or just look at the pictures. Sometimes I would watch a video tape of some porn I had bought from a catalog. Each of these would occur infrequently and for the most part all my masturbation happened in bed. I would get home from my job and sometimes get naked and jump into bed to rub myself until I came. Now I'm sitting at the computer all day for my work and there is very little keeping me from pulling my cock out and stroking to some hot video online.
So I've tried to stop, or just do it less often, but until I am away from this damn drug dealer of the internet, I don't see myself kicking the habit anytime soon.
Thought about it once, needed to jerk off more and harder and shoot more cum to make a decision, am still deciding!
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Yes, I have tried a few times and go a couple of weeks and then blow it (sorry for the pun). You're right too, the Internet is a big culprit.
Why on earth would you want to stop?
Uncutcummer said:
Why on earth would you want to stop?
Why on earth would you want to stop?
If it got to the point where it was interfering with your day to day life, then I can see where one might wish to stop.
A better path though would be planning and moderation. Set aside time each night or morning and dedicate that time to masturbation.
But then refrain from any sexual activity, such as going to this or other sex sites, outside of those hours you've set aside.
This way you aren't denying so much as delaying gratification. When you're tempted in the middle of the day to go online to perv out, when you should be doing other things, you'll be able to resist better as you know you'll have a special time later to perv out. Give you something to look forward to.
Balance and moderation.
When I was young and guilt-ridden over masturbation. Those years are long gone now.
Sometimes I go a couple of days, but that's because I have things to do.
Sometimes I go a couple of days, but that's because I have things to do.
No. Doin it now....
Bill C.
Uncutcummer said:
Why on earth would you want to stop?
Why on earth would you want to stop?
That thought never crossed my mind ever. Why would I stop jerking off when it feels so good and is so much fun.
Nope.
porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED) is a real thing. I suffer from it most of the time cos my brain is wired on porn most of the time. I have had access to hardcore internet porn since I was 12 or 13 and have been jacking off to it regularly for over 13 years now.
For a lot of guys of my age this is a thing. I tried to quit porn nearly four years ago after I couldn't get it up after the first few times with my cute fuck buddy. made it six weeks largely resisting any sort of arousal. felt like king of the world. since a relapse after a day with some serious triggers jacked off and haven't been able to go barely a week without cumming since.
Since discovering jackinchat and perving with buds its been so much harder to stop and I've tried so much less. Spent most of the weekend jacking off and cumming and did literally the whole day yesterday, came 10 times I think, felt soooo good. Love the feeling of overworked nuts to nasty porn whores. But felt terrible by the time I went to bed as it really is an addiction. I get tunnel vision and when triggered can only think about arousal and getting my fix of dopamine like a fiend. I ditch my friends to consume porn all the time now. Had two throating whores recently who were willing and able to let me cum deep in their throats, my current obsession and have been dying to try it. Couldn't cum tho, not even by wanking off over the face of and intermittently throating this gorgeous porn whore. My brain has now just been wired for pleasure triggered by bimbos and sluts on a screen. Luckily the brain is plastic and with abstinence can be moulded back to pre-porn understanding of sex and arousal and respond to a real girl, but it will take a long time to reverse and the longer and deeper and more hedonistic i go the harder it is a get back out.
For a lot of guys of my age this is a thing. I tried to quit porn nearly four years ago after I couldn't get it up after the first few times with my cute fuck buddy. made it six weeks largely resisting any sort of arousal. felt like king of the world. since a relapse after a day with some serious triggers jacked off and haven't been able to go barely a week without cumming since.
Since discovering jackinchat and perving with buds its been so much harder to stop and I've tried so much less. Spent most of the weekend jacking off and cumming and did literally the whole day yesterday, came 10 times I think, felt soooo good. Love the feeling of overworked nuts to nasty porn whores. But felt terrible by the time I went to bed as it really is an addiction. I get tunnel vision and when triggered can only think about arousal and getting my fix of dopamine like a fiend. I ditch my friends to consume porn all the time now. Had two throating whores recently who were willing and able to let me cum deep in their throats, my current obsession and have been dying to try it. Couldn't cum tho, not even by wanking off over the face of and intermittently throating this gorgeous porn whore. My brain has now just been wired for pleasure triggered by bimbos and sluts on a screen. Luckily the brain is plastic and with abstinence can be moulded back to pre-porn understanding of sex and arousal and respond to a real girl, but it will take a long time to reverse and the longer and deeper and more hedonistic i go the harder it is a get back out.
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