It's actually not healthy for a man not to masturbate.
With that being said it's also unwise to overdo it as long term problems can develop leading to things like diminished sex life or even impotence.
So act wisely and enjoy.
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The last time that I tried to stop, I held out for 11 months. But then I got access to unlimited porn, and that very day, after jerking for 9 hours straight, and cumming 8 times, I told myself that I'd never try to stop again. It just feels too damn good not to.
JOLUVR said:
It's actually not healthy for a man not to masturbate.
It's actually not healthy for a man not to masturbate.
I don't think this is strictly true, the reason masturbation is good is because it enables us to cum. Its cumming thats the healthy part, not masturbating. If you don't masturbate you still cum through nocturnal emissions/wet dreams. That is the bodies natural way of cumming when not doing so in pussy, which is the natural destination for a cock.
When I was young I was also guilt-ridden about masturbation but I'm over that now and masturbate a couple of times a day and love it. I often use gay porn to help things along.
MattCorran said:
When I was young and guilt-ridden over masturbation. Those years are long gone now.
Sometimes I go a couple of days, but that's because I have things to do.
When I was young and guilt-ridden over masturbation. Those years are long gone now.
Sometimes I go a couple of days, but that's because I have things to do.
I tried a few times when I was going through the religious phase. Even burned a great porn collection. Don't think I have gone a day without at least touching my cock and not more than a week at most without giving in and jacking off. Still kicking myself in the ass for burning the porn.
I left the church when the pastor gave a sermon on "Do not judge by appearances, but look at the heart" and the same night insisted I cut my long hair. (If long hair on a guy is wrong, then he's totally worshiping the wrong savior!) Anyway, he was being an ass and losing support of the entire congregation for asking me to cut my hair and for the way he was treating me when I refused to cut it, so I left the church and not long after he got busted by his wife in bed with another woman from the church. So, who was the sinner?
Jealous ball headed control freak!
I have a great collection of porn again, but I still wish I had all the older stuff I had before. I will never do that again!
I left the church when the pastor gave a sermon on "Do not judge by appearances, but look at the heart" and the same night insisted I cut my long hair. (If long hair on a guy is wrong, then he's totally worshiping the wrong savior!) Anyway, he was being an ass and losing support of the entire congregation for asking me to cut my hair and for the way he was treating me when I refused to cut it, so I left the church and not long after he got busted by his wife in bed with another woman from the church. So, who was the sinner?
Jealous ball headed control freak!
I have a great collection of porn again, but I still wish I had all the older stuff I had before. I will never do that again!
Love stroking with the women in person, on the phone or on webcam.
Never even considered it - I love wanking too much!
No! Why would I want to?
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zingerburger said:
Since discovering jackinchat and perving with buds its been so much harder to stop and I've tried so much less.
Since discovering jackinchat and perving with buds its been so much harder to stop and I've tried so much less.
Agree with this.
It's like that Louis CK bit where he talks about how the constant perversion is exhausting. It's weird because porn and pornstars are like a parody of sex and women, and I feel silly getting off to the stuff. I think my RL relationships would be better without porn and masturbation, but in the words of Kurt Cobain: oh well, whatever, nevermind!
No, it feels too good and I enjoy it too much. I'm naked and jacking off right now in fact😊
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DirtyWanker_86 said:
I think my RL relationships would be better without porn and masturbation
I think my RL relationships would be better without porn and masturbation
Agree with this, and that it is exhausting as well
NakedHornyGuy1975 said:
it feels too good and I enjoy it too much. I'm naked and jacking off right now in fact😊
it feels too good and I enjoy it too much. I'm naked and jacking off right now in fact😊
Lol me too mate
I have never tried to stop masturbating, but I have tried giving up porn. I've found over the years that it takes progressively more hardcore stuff to get me off. I hate pro porn. Right now I am into amateur cuckold and SPH.
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zingerburger said:
I don't think this is strictly true, the reason masturbation is good is because it enables us to cum. Its cumming thats the healthy part, not masturbating. If you don't masturbate you still cum through nocturnal emissions/wet dreams. That is the bodies natural way of cumming when not doing so in pussy, which is the natural destination for a cock.
I don't think this is strictly true, the reason masturbation is good is because it enables us to cum. Its cumming thats the healthy part, not masturbating. If you don't masturbate you still cum through nocturnal emissions/wet dreams. That is the bodies natural way of cumming when not doing so in pussy, which is the natural destination for a cock.
I've never, literally never, had a "wet dream", and the last time I came in pussy was 21 years ago when my child was conceived. Even then, because we were trying to get pregnant, we would fuck but I stroked myself until the point of cumming and would stick it in my wife to hopefully get her pregnant. In the 28 years we've been together I think I've cum inside her three times, and the first two were early in the relationship.
The only way I cum is by masturbation. It takes me over an hour to cum by stroking and no woman I have ever known could last that long having intercourse. Guys think that's the goal, to outlast the girl because she'll think you are some sort of stud. It's the opposite. Women want men to finish and I never do. I wish I could cum quickly like many (maybe most?) guys because my satisfaction would be quicker and she would also get the satisfaction of making her man cum with her. I laugh at those ads that try and sell something to make "it last longer". That's such bullshit to me.
Anyway, the only destination my cock gets is my hand, with maybe some pussy or mouth along the way if I'm lucky. Otherwise I must have the healthiest prostate in the world because I cum 2 to 3 times a day because of porn.
Interesting topic & yes over the eons I've stopped now & then for various reasons. Sometimes for weeks & maybe month(s), perhaps had a gal friend I was hoping to fuck. And I'd toss my 'zines & lube into the furtherest reaches of my closet shelf. But of course I always came back, so to speak. I enjoy it, so why not. Just do it. And at 62 I'm still a daily bator. 1-2x a day.
its just sex
great topic. i have this same issue - i love it so much and try to stop but it is a strong addiction. i have gone as long as 6 months before but then some huge breasted mature will bounce by and it's all over. i blame an older neighbor for getting me into it. she was an auntie type with massive tits and i used to jack off to her - even "borrowing" her bras at times. it is bad because it does prevent me from doing normal things. even at work i take chances surfing for huge tits.