I wanted to put this out there to get other people's objective opinion. Can you be straight and have maybe a very casual interest in guys but without all of the bi/gay trappings? Not into kissing or anything else on that order. I was reading the G0y website about guys who like other guys but don't adopt the whole lifestyle who abhor anal sex. Was wondering if I fit into that category. Not that have serious interest but time to time would have leanings and wonder. Helps to know that I grew up without many guy friends and didn't go away to college so wasn't able to develop any adult friendships/relationships with other people. Been jacking and cybering with many guys over the years as an escape and filling whatever void, but feel it's more likely a need for social closeness. Just to make up for what I am missing.

Some folks call this "bisexual", I just call it "horny". I have no romantic attraction to men, but I love sucking cock and even anal. It feels great, I cum hard, and it's over....I walk away.

I hate labels, but it makes things easier for some folks, so call me bisexual....just don't kiss me.

same herer and I agree with Slo and Str8. Love women, have a gf, but find a hard smoother cock hot!

Thats a good question, i'm str8 but curious i guess. I will watch bi and gay stuff when horny but won't look at random guys in the grocery store.

I have seen two groups of guys. One group of straight guys who like acting out online with other men, but in person wouldn't think twice about being with a guy and stuck with women. The other group is part of a gray area who have done some bi/gay stuff, mostly just oral sex and mutual masturbation or frottage. Still see themselves as straight because they still prefer women and have no "in love" feelings towards another guy. I am thinking that is the difference between sexual orientation and preference. I always thought you needed to have feelings towards someone in order to act on something and not soully based on some physical desire. I just sorely lack guy friends. Friends who can go out and eat or hang out together. I have never experienced it which is more paramount in your adult life. Men see all of their close guy friends get married for example but want to still retain the friendships they have built.

Curious here and I admire cocks.

This is me!!!

It's just another label. Who cares? Rock music has so many different sub genres now that I have no fucking clue what most of it is anymore. It's still guitars, bass, drums and vocals, with maybe a keyboard now and then. Define that?

I'm not gay. I'm not aroused or attracted to men in the slightest. Yet, a nice, hot hard cock on a hot body can sometimes be a turn on for me. Bi? Bi-curious? Fantasist? Pic one

From my gay perspective, I'll relate a recent experience
with a Straight married guy:
He had an ad up on my local area Craigslist last week,
I replied, we met and hooked up at my place.

In his ad he wanted to swap handjobs, frot, and
rub his cock between a guy's ass cheeks to shoot
his load.
I replied that I was good with the handjobs and
the frotting; and that I would enjoy those activities
better than having my ass fucked
(I really wasn't in the mood to get Anally topped
at that time)... he then agreed to meet me
at my place.

The moments up to our meeting were tense,
he was nervous and so was I.
He found my address and almost turned
away because my building isn't numbered.
I ran outside and phone-texted him with my building
location and that I was waiting for him outside.
He returned, and explained to me that he had
chickened out. I still invited him upstairs to my room,
of course Without pressuring him. Up we went...

...it was the BEST almost-two-hours we spent in
my bed as I frotted him, and gave him a very slow
lubed edging handjob using every hand and finger grip
technique I could think of.
No talking, but low soft whispering as I coached
him to relax his body and breath deeply.

He laid fully naked on my bed, and I was fully naked
sitting between his legs with his legs straddled
around my waist...

I gently rubbed his hairy chest and abs, down to
his groin, and along his thighs.
My finger tips had often barely touched his cock
and the backs of his thighs, and his butt cheeks,
and he was Writhing with pleasure!

His cock was rigid hard and firm, so veiny; and his
cock head was tight-hard smooth, his shaft felt so
silky dry and soft-skinned... so perfect to caress
his cock with my forearms. My forearms are slightly
hairy in front and smooth in back; he was all
toe-curled and gooning with every random gentle
stroke I dished out on him with my forearms.

Then came the lube and the teasing strokes on
his now throbbing cock. Man, he was twitching and
toe-curling like a motherfucker!
I continued coaching him to breath deeply.
And by the way, Neither of us used any poppers
during this session. And I don't regret that.
(being the popper pig that I usually am)

His eyes rolled back, his cock began to ooze
with pre-cum and I used it as additional lube.
I stroked his cock at random paces with a variety
of grips around the shaft and cock head.

I found his sweet spot in his frenulum just below
the bulbous tip of his cock head, and I gently
massaged that area while I tickled his taint
with my other hand.
He had mad goose-bumps all over him as he had
reached the peak of his pleasure threshold,
and I kept him in that state for a good while.

After all that hand-to-cock foreplay he shot off
a beautiful thick load all over his abs, and I just
continued stroking him... he didn't push my hands
away nor did he fight me off. lol

His body arched and jerked like shock waves as I
continued the teasing; and then I gradually stopped.
He was so receptive to the entire ordeal, and it
made my day.
For being a Straight guy, he was the Best Craigslist
hookup I ever had.

After we were done we laid there cuddled, no kissing,
no pillow talk, just laid there cuddled and still
caressing one another... nothing "gay" about it.
We parted ways, but he asked me to stay in touch
for him to come visit me again soon.

I wish I had caught that session on video.
It was The best erotic session I ever had
with a Straight guy... neither one of us had lost
his sense of masculinity throughout our session.

This was all pure blind trust in the first place,
but we were both lucky to have satisfied that trust
in one another.

Goes to show you that even guys need a little bit
of erotic nurturing, too.
Don't approach one another as something you're Not;
approach one another As You Are.
It all begins with Trust.



.....I forgot to mention, the guy was 64 years old
and in very terrific physical stocky shape.

I don't really care about labels. I love women but can't also see attraction in guys, nothing like a nice, shaved cock. I've never been with a guy but I can imagine a situation where I could enjoy physical contact with the right one. Let it go and enjoy yourself

I've always thought of gay/straight as a sliding scale, rather than a series of pigeon holes or labels. I know I'm not 100% 'straight' - I've never been in a relationship with a guy, nor do I think I ever would, but I do like to get sexy with them now and again. Guess I just go with what makes my dick hard.

I love to cum watching guys stroke, but only enjoy looking at his cock. So hard, big head and curved makes me cum!

This is, without a doubt, the HOTTEST thing I have ever read on this site. Thanks for sharing!

Awesome story slightly aroused now thanks😆 also agree approach one another as you are.

I've been to the GOYZ website you mentioned and found it a very refreshing take on the issues of M2M interest. There used to be another site that sort of dealt with the topic called Enlightened Male 2000 but has since been taken down.

The whole jist of GOYZ to me is that masculinity is both emphasized and appreciated by GOYZ, thus the feminized male is out. They seem to suggest this M2M closeness is normal and needed by all men whether they're aware of their needs or not.


I think lots of guys on JC would find much in common with GOYZ.