Posted on 2017-06-12 08:06 PM
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Str8Male74 said:
I wanted to put this out there to get other people's objective opinion. Can you be straight and have maybe a very casual interest in guys but without all of the bi/gay trappings? Not into kissing or anything else on that order. I was reading the G0y website about guys who like other guys but don't adopt the whole lifestyle who abhor anal sex. Was wondering if I fit into that category. Not that have serious interest but time to time would have leanings and wonder. Helps to know that I grew up without many guy friends and didn't go away to college so wasn't able to develop any adult friendships/relationships with other people. Been jacking and cybering with many guys over the years as an escape and filling whatever void, but feel it's more likely a need for social closeness. Just to make up for what I am missing.
I came to the conclusion after years of coming to sites like JC and other places, jerking off with probably hundreds of guys over phone, camera, etc that I am probably 70/30 in terms of sexual orientation -- heavily leaning to women but with a definite interest in men on a certain level. It's not romantic at all and I don't look at guys on the street, but I love watching guys fuck and I love dick. I have no problem talking to guys on the phone and getting very dirty.
Now that's just my conclusion -- every guy has to decide that for himself. Being attracted to someone doesn't mean you're going to fuck them, just like NOT being attracted to someone means you CAN'T fuck them. If a straight guy gets really good head from another guy, it's still going to feel good. So I think the straight/gay/bi label is maybe just a bit overthought, at least it was in my case.
I've seen guys in the chat claim that you can't possibly jerk off with another guy and still be straight. I disagree 100% and think that each person has to decide for themselves. In the mean time, there's no reason not to have some fun without worrying about it too much.
Posted on 2017-06-16 03:38 AM
Str8Male74
406 posts since 2005-08-16
49 year old heterosexual male from Illinois
I've always seen str8, bi and gay as an easy way to identify people even though it does compartmentalize or pigeon hole people when you think about it. Saw that the guys who have less of a problem with labels are those who've done stuff and more comfortable with their sexuality in general. Talked to a lot of people over the years and heard a bunch of stories, predominantly from people under 30 or college age who've done stuff to a more or lesser degree, but I never saw it when I was their age so probably not as prevalent as today.
Posted on 2017-06-16 03:38 PM
DavdfrAtlanta
249 posts since 2017-06-16
60 year old curious male from Georgia, USA
Sure, why not. I consider myself a straight guy and have no interest in dating another guy. But, that story definitely got my attention. I think it might be fun to explore a little.
Posted on 2017-06-17 01:25 AM
JOLUVR
1108 posts since 2014-12-11
68 year old curious from Jackson ,TN
[quote=Str8Male74]I've always seen str8, bi and gay as an easy way to identify people even though it does compartmentalize or pigeon hole people when you think about it. Saw that the guys who have less of a problem with labels are those who've done stuff and more comfortable with their sexuality in general. Talked to a lot of people over the years and heard a bunch of stories, predominantly from people under 30 or college age who've done stuff to a more or lesser degree, but I never saw it when I was their age so probably not as prevalent as today.[/quote ] I think it's always been around to some degree just more accepted publicly than it used to be. I don't think it's quite as taboo and I'm glad , most especially for younger guys who're considering it.
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Posted on 2017-06-26 01:55 PM
Bigbird
3 posts since 2017-06-26
64 year old
I am 'straight', married, addict for pussy. HOwever, past few years I have got mre interested in cocks and balls. Love to watch guys masturbate and cum on videos. Have now also enjoyed fantasising about giving guys handjobs and blowjobs. I am sure I'd love now to have a young stud take care of me with his hand and mouth. Would love to mutually wank on web.
Posted on 2017-06-28 10:24 PM
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34m nj str8 but curious but love to chat about the curiosity.. send me a pvt
Posted on 2017-06-28 11:29 PM
AcesFull
9 posts since 2016-01-06
54 year old heterosexual from Denver
I agree with you. Its hot to watch a guy stroke but I have no desire to be physical with another guy. I also agree with others that its a very large spectrum between straight and gay. As long as both parties are into it, do what feels right.
Posted on 2017-06-29 10:26 PM
Leo1
3 posts since 2017-05-20
74 year old bisexual from FL
It's semantics, guys. We all love sex. We all enjoy our orgasms. Everyone enjoys pleasures of the senses; all the senses. Males are typically visually aroused. Many have oral tendencies. If we're honest every one of us is bi-sexual to some degree, and all over the scale/spectrum. And here's another secret, women are too. They are simply aroused differently. Let's not bother labeling ourselves gay, or bi, or straight. Just enjoy what you like and be cool with it!
Enjoy your body while you can, that's what it's for!
Posted on 2017-06-30 11:55 AM
SloStroker
7249 posts since 2006-08-21
52 year old bisexual male from Nashville, TN
Leo1 said:
Let's not bother labeling ourselves gay, or bi, or straight. Just enjoy what you like and be cool with it!
Absolutely!
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Posted on 2017-07-06 03:50 PM
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AcesFull said:
I agree with you. Its hot to watch a guy stroke but I have no desire to be physical with another guy. I also agree with others that its a very large spectrum between straight and gay. As long as both parties are into it, do what feels right.
I find watching a shemale solo much more at rousing than watching a guy stroke. Love watching women masturbate as well.
Most of my extracurricular activity is with females at massage parlors though have seen a half dozen she male escorts, three male masseurs and one JO bud from this site. What does that make me?
How about "Happy"?
Posted on 2017-07-06 04:50 PM
Im married, totally attracted to women and in love with women. Love eating pussy and playing with tits... but i find hardons and cock play super erotic. Ive sucked and stroked guys to orgasm, but dont like anal even with women. Dont kiss guys, fuzzy faces dont appeal to me, but i love having stroke buds and playmates. Wish i had a regular one like i once did before he moved.
Posted on 2017-07-06 05:11 PM
Str8Male74
406 posts since 2005-08-16
49 year old heterosexual male from Illinois
I am a firm believer in live and let live. If a guy wants to get married to another guy they shouldn't be denied the same financial, medical and legal rights like everyone else just because of whom they choose to love and spend their lives with. On the other hand I find it funny, when I've talked to a group of people it's either they are curious and somehow able to separate the act from the feelings attached to it, but doesn't the act go with the feelings? Can't have one without the other. Those who are straight but open minded, have had sexual relationships with other guys, but still see themselves as straight and rationalize in my opinion to make it OK in their minds, when it's who are you kidding. You aren't straight, you are bisexual at the least. One guy I talked to was like that. Straight, but did have "bromances" with other guys where he played a bit but still made it to look like it was a normal thing in his mind and could still retain his straightness. I know sexual fluidity has become a new concept. I've seen things as more black and white but that just comes from my limited life experience.
Posted on 2017-07-06 05:23 PM
bob_on_cam
111 posts since 2013-03-30
42 year old curious
Very curious and would love to try something. Just not sure if I would have the guts to do it.
Posted on 2017-07-07 10:06 AM
Unregistered
If you are looking for a title it's curious. Personally I believe no one is straight. We all are curious, just some are afraid to admit it. Conditioned by society and the older you are the deeper you are conditioned. Call me curious, and I've overcome my conditioning and I'm embracing my new title at the ripe age of 62.
Posted on 2017-07-09 10:23 AM. Last edited by texstroker on 2017-07-09 10:27 AM. (2 edits total)
texstroker
1870 posts since 2013-03-18
63 year old curious from southeast texas
gdtm69 said:
If you are looking for a title it's curious. Personally I believe no one is straight. We all are curious, just some are afraid to admit it. Conditioned by society and the older you are the deeper you are conditioned. Call me curious, and I've overcome my conditioning and I'm embracing my new title at the ripe age of 62.
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