Read a few posts on here where older guys mentioned their cocks aren't as hard anymore and what not. I'm 30 and currently wake up rock hard every morning and need to jerk off a few times a day. Was wondering when it starts going downhill lol

All are different, but for me in the mid to late 60s I began to notice a downward trend. Nothing drastic, but in size volume frequency and hardness the thing was slowly downhill. Intensity is BETTER!

Still going at 78!

wow at 78 thats crazy!

after they cum well at least for me

As for me I started having a tough time in my late 50's. Now I have a penile implant and can stay hard as a rock all night if I want. I love it. I can cum, keep on pumping and cum again and again. My girlfriend loves it, as long as my wife doesn't find out about it. lol

I'm 42yo. What I noticed in the late 30s was that I was unable to stay consistenly hard for the 45+ minutes my wife and I used to make love, if not twice in a hour, and sometimes 90 minutes of hardness.

I also read much research that my inclination to masturbate by rubbing my hips on a pillow or floor, along with my wife loving me to rub my stem atop of her clit, my balls flapping on her vulva, does cause some strain that can reduce my erection age.

Now going the other way, I tried Viagara last year for the first time, 25mg (quarter pill) and it was the biggest fucking mistake in my life. I almost maintained an erection for 4 hours. I got my wife sore the 3rd time as it didnt' go down, and I was pounding and cumming a half-dozen times, and it was still going up after that. Finally it gave way the 7th time, just past the 3 hour mark.

I don't recommend Viagara unless you really need it. I might in a decade or more, but right now, my wife now understand that getting 45+ minutes of continual erection is not something I'm going be able to sustain into my 40s.

Our time limit is about 15-30 minutes now. At first she was insulted, and it caused some strain. But we saw a counselor last year, and she laughed at my wife's attitude. That pretty much fixed it and she doesn't expect me to stay hard for that long any more.

wow, crazy story about viagra. thanks!

Thanks again for sharing this story and helping others avoid such an experience. Again we thank you.

that's good news. Wow a penile implant huh

For me, late 50's I think, not like I wrote the date down but... Also could likely be related to diabetes but I still enjoy masturbating daily.

I'm only 45, but I started noticing a decrease in stiffness and a big drop off in ejaculate volume a couple of years ago. I still get hard, and if I'm super horny I'll get one of those teenage erections, but most of the time I'm a little floppy, especially when edging for a long time.

i see, must be nice when you get the old school teenage erection!

This sounds so very familiar. 47 here and I've gone through the exact same stuff. Glad to hear I'm not the only one.

Two complaints I got from every girlfriend I fucked.
"When are you going to cum?"
"It's too fucking big!"
I believe some of loosing hardness is age related. But also your partner has an affect.
FIRST, having a "Willing" partner would help 100%.
A few years ago a woman I work with started sex txting out of the blue. She said her boyfriend could care less about sex, and she needed it..... BAD!
I was so hard every time we talked I had to jack off. And I told her. She has the most incredible tits, and face. She would tell me she wanted my cock titty fucking her. Too bad she decided to marry her no-sex boyfriend and stop talking to me.
However, I can not claim my cock is/was too big personally. Most woman I was with measured and said 8 inches. I know he used to stretch past my bellybutton. Today? I WISH!!

Early 30s here but every now and then it takes me a while to get hard and sometimes my cock kinda feels numb until it's fully erect. I think I pinched a nerve in my leg or back a while back that caused this. When this happens there's no force behind my cumshot either, it usually only gets as far as my belly button. No matter how long I've been edging.

But I also have days when my cock gets rock hard within no time which is good.

I got a bit paranoid when looking for symptoms about this as diabetes could be related.