phillyjackr said:
I don't agree with the word "becoming". You don't BECOME gay, bi or straight. You ARE...
Another way to look at it is that life experiences shape how we respond to situations, and our self perceptions change if we are open to it. That can have a big impact on what we do, what we find acceptable, and to what extent it changes how we regard ourselves.
Not just sexually, but emotionally, financially, socially...to some degree we're all in a constant state of evolution.
I think you just become less worried about what anybody else thinks and just want to do what makes you happy.
It's not just bi issue. People loosen up about all kinds of other sexual things to.
BisexuallyCurious66 said:
Another way to look at it is that life experiences shape how we respond to situations, and our self perceptions change if we are open to it. That can have a big impact on what we do, what we find acceptable, and to what extent it changes how we regard ourselves.
Not just sexually, but emotionally, financially, socially...to some degree we're all in a constant state of evolution.
Personal experience tells me that you are on the right track here @BisexuallyCurious66. Life experience does make you more open to things in all types of ways to include sexual desires and wants. As we all get older, most of us don't really care anymore what someone thinks about us. My rule of thumb is, as long as everyone is happy and having fun and not being abused or tortured...its all fair in love and war.
