i was watching a vid of kerry marie doing a standard tease show the other day,and i think i finally realised that i was getting off on the pure frustration of not being able to touch.i wouldn`t like to admit when i last was with a woman,and my fantasy was all about kerry enjoying teasing me.in my mind she was explaining how she would let her boy friend touch her and how it would turn them on to know i was having to watch and jack off(obviously the bloke is rich,handsome and a complete contrast to the sad wanker that i am) .in real life if i talk to awoman the idea of a relationship or even sex never enters my head.all my fantasies are watching sex.i`m even turned on by fleshlight ads.
do you think i should admit(accept)that i am a confirmed wanker?are there many more like me out there?i`d like to know what women think?eg.do you recognise a wanker when you meet him in the street.finally should i seek professional help or buy a fleshlight and sally forth,proud of my true wanker sexuality

I know what you mean, I haven't had sex for over 4 years. But it doesn't overly bother me. I don't want a "relationship" - am extremely happy being single, I have good friends for social life etc, and can live exactly how I want to. I guess I could explore other avenues for no strings sex if I had the motivation, but to be honest I love wanking, and am - for the time being - happy enjoying myself with porn etc. then after cumming I can get on with normal life unhindered by all the complications of another person being involved.

4 years you lucky swine!

I am married, but our sex life is non existant, I dont bother trying to get her interested now I just come online and do some c2c wanking. It is a lot easier, and I dont feel I am being unfaithful.I like watching other guys jerk off, I also like being watched.

You can't tell if someone masturbates just by looking at them when you pass them in the street. That is, unless they're jerking off in the streets. From a female point of view, I really don't care. So guys jerk off a lot. Big deal! Let 'em.

I don't see why you would need to seek professional help (unless you meant as in a private dancer or escort). If it does not interfere, inhibit, or dictate your social life and daily living habits then I would think nothing of it other than as sexual health. Lots of guys jerk off instead of have sex - especially, in the trend I'm seeing, the older men in married relationships are masturbating more than ever since their wives are often post-menopausal and no longer have as much interest in sex as their husbands (and guys, they're not doing it to be mean. our bodies just hate us).

So enjoy yourself in a healthy manner. Jerk off to your hearts content. Some people really get off on being teased and watching others have sex. That's OKAY.

I had girlfriends in high school from age 16 but I never had sex (intercourse) with any of them. I did get an occasional handjob but that was it. I did want sex so badly but only to remove the so called "virgin" stigma. I finally had sex when I was 19 and I realized that yes, sex is fun but it really isn't all that important. An orgasm is an orgasm is an orgasm! After I broke up with the girl that I first had sex with I didn't have intercourse again until I was almost 23. Not that I wasn't trying, I just didn't find anyone whom I was interested in enough. For me, masturbating was enough to satisfy any urges I had for a release and to sleep at night!lol Now that I am married I rarely pressure my wife for sex as I know if she wants it I'll get it. Otherwise, I am contend to jack off if I need to.

IS IT ROD OR GRAYS?

Oh yes I am a 'confirmed wanker' - in fact when I was younger girls often made me cum in my pants, like low-cut top behind the bar, walking down the street in micro-miniskirt. I'd cum in my pants looking at girls in magazines and then later spunk over Her photo. I've only ever wanked or spunked my pants - i.e. never had a 'relationship' with a girl, other than 'worship relationship' - I was lucky enough to see girls pose occasionally, and they'd know I spunked in my pants just watching.

I have always preferred jerking off to sex. No pussy feels as good as my lubed hand expertly. working my little dick.