The wife made an innocent off the cuff remark that "it takes you forever to cum lately" that struck a nerve with me. She knows I masturbate of course but not that it is almost strictly endurance masturbation and edging sessions that last anywhere from 3-10 hours or longer. I'm convinced that these sessions have affected my ability to orgasm any shorter than an hour or so of steady fucking, sucking and a pounding hand job. We went at it pretty hard last night and when she figured it was time to send me over the edge, I could not cum and she quit. Anybody else notice this sort of result from edging?

I have noticed that too. I usually edge while masturbating during 5-6 hr sessions. Now it seems I cannot cum in a timely fashion with wife.

I began having difficulty cumming during sex, even unable to cum, which was quite frustating. Came across this video which explains how this is related to edging.

How edging desensitize your penis

My wife is an awesome lover and is into pleasing me and bringing me to orgasm using a variety of techniques. She was beginning to think it was her that was the problem. It was more important to me to maintain our sex life than it was to edge. I still edge, but only occasionally.

same here - takes me several hours to unload.

Who's in a hurry?

guys,, 54 bi married I think you will need to pick between edging and pussy. once I started edging I too lost the ability to cum quickly in a pussy, so I gave up pussy. my hand gives me 4-6 hours of great feeling, no pussy can do that

so will u give it up then or is it worth it

I'm 27. Been edging pretty much every time I masturbate now. Never used to be able to because of privacy so was always about cumming quickly. I felt that had an influence during sex as couldn't last as long as I wanted.

Since I've been edging I feel that it does take me longer to cum, so not all bad if you don't last long to start with. However, even when I had booked an hour with a pornstar escort, she was vigourously wanking me and even she found it difficult to make me cum. She eventually made me squirt from the sensations rather than have a proper orgasm with cum.

So yeah I think it has affected me too. I can still cum in a few minutes if time is short, but I'm literally beating my dick so quickly, and when I do cum it's not the pleasure I get after a long edging orgasm.

Have any guys found they no longer get morning wood since edging? I used to be rock hard but now it's barely a semi. Is this because of edging or just getting older?

I love to edge but I don't let myself cum.. then when I'm lucky enough to fuck the wife I usually last no longer than 2 minutes.

That take some self-restraint! If I edge one day and don't cum, I'm literally holding back the juices oozing from my cock the day after. My cock has such a build up of cum from edging the day before that it has to keep releasing small squirts of cum without orgasm throughout my next edging session. It's a lot of fun but takes some stamina to not cum when you're cock and balls are literally begging for some release.

You do get an amazing powerful cumshot though by stopping yourself cumming for so long. I'm talking squirting half way across the room with such force!

Yeah, the other day my wife grinded her pussy on my cock and I came without ever getting in her.

So you're saying edging has made you more sensitive and prone to cumming quickly?

I used to spend each evening and every weekend edging loads of my cum so I could eat it. 2 to 3 loads each night; 8 t 10 loads on weekends. I never had problems cumming in or on women, or on our food, or in our drinks.

Edging didn't have a bad effect on me. I loved the pleasure it gave me.

I have noticed I can't cum quicky anymore either. Anyone have an idea if you can get it back? If so how quickly? My wife gets warn out by me fucking so long or her jacking me off. After awhile she gets bored and then i get frustrated as well as her and end up going on to sleep.

I have never noticed this problem myself, but then I don't always edge. And it seems like some of you have been practicing edging for years if not decades. I suppose my advice would be try abstaining from edging for awhile and see if that helps. Maybe even hold of from stroking, as horrible as that sounds, to build up some lust for when you have sex.