Only in fantasy. Wife is handcuffed in chair wearing just silk panties. I go around the chair and feel up her tits and kiss her neck. Then I rub her clit through her silk panties and and ask her if she likes it. Of course she says yes and I tease her sum more. Tell she she has to beg to cum. She does. I then tell her she has to give me a fantastic BJ first. She agrees. I take out my cock and feed it to her waiting open mouth. She begins by licking the tip and then sucking the head. Soon she has half of my dick down her throat and is doing a great job of sucking me of. I can not hold back any more and shoot my load in her mouth. I now tell her to lick clean my cock if she wants to cum. After she is done cleaning my dick with her tongue and mouth I rub her clit until she cums multiple times and begs me to stop.

Another fantasy. I am tied down spread eagle on a bed naked. My wife tied me down because I thought I would like it.
Wife: So you think I am going to play with your dick and make you cum. But I may just get you hornie and leave you tied up. Or I may have you beg me to make you cum or I may make you cum until you beg me to stop. I will start by playing with your dick. Which you like me to put your cock in my mouth? I bet you would. Tell me how much more you like me giving you a HJ then you jerking off. I know you like JO since you do it so often. If I make you cum how long will it be before you will want to JO?
Me: I will not JO for a week. Please make me cum.
Wife: If I give you a BJ will you not JO for 10 days?
Me: Yes Yes
Wife: Lier. You will JO tomorrow if you get the chance. In any case you will have to earn your orgasm. I am going to sit on your face and you are going to eat me until I can take no more.
My wife removed her panties and put her cunt on my mouth and I ate her out until she had cum 4/5 times.
Wife: You did a good job, so I am going to make you cum but I am going to tease that cock of yours until you beg me to cum.
My wife did what she said and jerked me off after teasing me for over an hour. I asked her to lick me clean, but she wiped the cum of my dick with her hand and made me lick the cum from her hand.
Wife: Should I untie you? Have you had enough? Maybe I should keep you tied up so you can not JO.
Me: Yes, untie me I had enough.
Wife: If I do , you will be free to JO the first chance you get.
Me: No I will not.
Wife: Lie again. I know you you can not stop JO. Tell me what do you enjoy more, a HJ from me or you jerking off?
Me: Your HJs.
Wife: Do not lie. It is Ok. JO when ever you want.

I've only done it once. An escort tied me up and dominated me. Pegged me. Flipped me over and fingered me while jerking me off. My arms tied to the headboard. Stroked me through my orgasm. Such wonderful torture.

My wife and I did that a few times. For some reason she liked it, and she isn't really the type. Strangely, I might be the type, but didn't really like it.

I need to be tied up and used. I would also love to do this to someone else.