There are a lot of profiles on here that state someone is straight but curious. I wonder how many of those that are, have sated that curiosity and what they thought

I've been sexually attracted to men since I was a teenager. Never romantically attracted, but enjoy playing with cock. I used to recoil when someone said I was gay or bi, but now I know that it's just a label and yes, I do enjoy sex with men, so whatever makes it easier for someone to understand....great.

I had some experience with my peers when I was 13-16 but not since. I know what it is about but the curiosity comes from not having the same experience with m/m adults.

Always keen to have contact from other 'curious' whether without experience or only at younger age like me.

I completely agree!

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Curiosity of this kind is a tricky thing, I think. Since I'm not primarily attracted to men, I'm much pickier about who I'd want to experiment with. This isn't just physical appearance, but the sort of vibe and personality stuff. Trust is a huge issue.

Sexual identity for men, culturally, seems to be fraught with danger. Here in the U.S., for example, it's pretty popular for women to declare themselves bisexual or bicurious, and even considered to make the women more attractive to many guys. But the opposite does NOT seem to be true. Many women find bi-curiousness to be flat-out a big turn off in a man. This gives rise to a fear of being found out and having your main sexual preference suddenly very limited, which is not a great prospect.

As for me, I like to look at cocks sometimes, and I do fantasize about some same-sex activity. But so far I have only acted on it mildly, and briefly, during adolescence. Never since. I have never since met a guy with whom I'd feel comfortable pursuing such things.

I have thought about going to gay bars and just meeting guys and seeing what happens, but I have to admit, I feel a little self-conscious being a curious guy in an environment like that. I have a feeling a lot of gay guys might resent experimenters.

I love sucking and jacking off a cock. I have sucked and jacked off about 30 so far. Nothing like feeling a cock tense up right before it shoots it's load.

I will always prefer women but playing sucking erc another cock is a whole other level of turn on for me. Never romantically into guys just another hot cock. I think its because as guys we're so in tune and so into our own cocks and at least for me suckong one is so hot because its what I wish I could do to my own.

I think gay guys are the same as straight guys in that given the chance of cock or pussy they will go for it. After all, how many straight guys do you think would resent a lesbian who wanted to 'experiment' with them?

But from my own limited experience I think there are a lot of curious guys who just want to try it out with another guy - gay or straight - just to try something different and exciting.

I switched my profile from Curious to Bisexual after I was able to actually suck a cock. I guess if after my experience I was "satisfied" and no longer curious, or interested, in cock I would have switched the profile to "Straight." Think is that isn't the case. After my first taste of a warm, hard cock, and my second, I was left even more wanting. The first guy was a one time thing and I swallowed two loads from him. Then a couple of months later I met the guy I call my boyfriend. We saw each other regularly for about six months and I swallowed many loads from his cock. Spent a lot of naked time with him, kissed him deeply every chance I got, sucked his balls and licked his asshole. I bent over on his bed and spread my ass cheeks apart to feel his tongue inside me.

We never had intercourse and it was probably just a matter of time before that happened but the regular relationship ended when I got scared and broke it off. It was getting too intense for me and I felt like it was causing me too much anxiety and really not fair to my wife and family. He was all I could think about and that needed to stop.

We see each other once in a while but haven't started back up sexually. I still wish I could suck his cock. I'm not curious, I'm bisexual. I want both men and women.

Well said. It is a part of human curiosity that pre-pubertal boys will want to know what lies ahead and if they prefer to get this from peers then so be it.

I believe that this is a common feeling. When guys are looking on the internet for masturbatory stimulation the drive is high to want to have someone by their side at that moment. However, in many cases, once orgasm has been attained, the need for another person declines until next time. That seems to me to be one of the reasons why connections made in the heat of the moment get cooler with the softening of the penis.

Also, for a genuine m/m sexual contact there does need to be friendship/ compatibility/ and in my case cultural similarities. Just like there might be for non-sexual friendships.

Never-the-less there is often the need to find out just what it is like to have the sort of mutual contact that takes your fancy. Often though, in practice, hope and expectation exceed reality.

I wonder if in the reality of things, it might be easier to satisfy the curious for the need to know by making contact with a gay provider for that satisfaction. Just a thought.

I bill myself on this site as curious but for 15 or so years I've enjoyed quite a few men suck my cock. I've sucked a couple and jerked off more than a few. No anal sex but a couple fingers in my ass and my fingers have seen the inside of an asshole a couple times...not as a steady diet but fun every once in a while

One of the most accurate assesments on the subject I have ever read. Me personally, I was curious, so I had sex with a guy or two, and discovered that I liked it. Thus, no longer curious. Some people get very hung up on the labelling.