First, let me define "small". Guys, small isn't 6 inches. My dick is probably one of the smallest on JackinChat. It's only 3 inches hard! Ok in thickness, but still what's called a "micropenis". That description alone is embarrassing.

I feel God fucked me before anyone else could. I've rarely gotten women in my life. I'm ashamed of how small I am, and am afraid for someone to see it. Imagine the reaction I'd get from a woman when she sees me drop my pants!

I've only had 1 gf that was ok with it. But we hardly ever fucked. She gave great BJs, and I was fine with that since my dick was barely big enough to fuck with.

Anyone else having these feelings of insecurity and not feeling like a real man having a small cock? Or, are you fine with having a small one, and could tell me how to deal with this? Please respond.

Darling, don't fret. They have extenders that can help you satisfy a woman. Don't let anyone judge you by your cock size alone. I understand that is difficult, but the more confident you are with yourself the more comfortable women will be with you. Personality attracts women first, not your dick. Otherwise we would all be walking around with tape measurers in our purses for "interviews".

My hubby is average size, but he uses toys on me all the time. It gets me off just fine. Unless you want to look into surgeries you gotta work with what you have.

Don't let it get you down. Xoxo

you are lovely xx

and from what i know, penis size is more important to men than it is to women.

Yes, men are more concerned with their penis size. Some guys have 6 inches, but still feel their cock is too small. MY situation is different - its not that I PERCEIVE my cock is small, it IS small. 3 goddamn inches HARD! that's fucking pathetic. I dont even fuck hookers, its so small.

Trust me, I've seen hundreds of guys, and my dick is amongst the smallest Ive ever seen. A woman would laugh at how pathetic it is.

nope, not that i wouldn't like a bigger dick but it is what it is

So get some extenders and toys. If you are that uncomfortable with it, look into procedures to increase your size. We are fortunate to live in a day and age where these things arw available. Don't be so hard in yourself, do something about it.

3" is small, but that card's already been dealt, so what are you going to do? Size does matter, but it's not the only thing. I think many women would agree that grabbing a 3" dick is better than grabbing no dick at all.

Often, with my wife, she preferred that I just rub my cock on her clit, rather than penetrate. She only wanted it shoved in right when she came. We both enjoyed it. Toys are another option. And finally, sex is great, but it's not the only thing in a long-term relationship. If you can find a woman you want to be around all the time, sex is just icing on the cake.

While my 5" dick is bigger than 3" I have some of the same issues. I used to be ashamed and embarrassed by my small dick. A fuck buddy told me she'd "never fuck me if I didn't eat pussy so well" and in that same week my wife told me she preferred her ex's 7.5" cock to mine. For some reason the humiliation really turned me on and I've been into SPH ever since. I enjoy showing it off and comparing. I happily tell people I have a small penis.

Some have tried to convince me 5" is "average", but I've been with many men and all but 4 were bigger than me. Maybe guys less than 5" don't have the confidence to hook up...who knows.

As has been mentioned, use an extender. I have a 7" one for when my wife actually wants to have sex. She says isn't not like a real cock that size, but it does give her that "full" feeling and isn't as prone to slip out as my little cock is.

I also typically go down on my wife and make her cum a time or two then she'll use her vibrator to cum 4 to 6 more times. By the time I penetrate her she is more than satisfied and is telling me to cum as quickly as I can.

I'm of average height, in fact, I'm probably below what is noted as average height these days at just under 5'9". My 'lil man' is just fine, it looks big, women have always said it's the perfect size and they love how it looks and feels. I have had a few women, including my recent ex say that I had the most beautiful dick she's ever seen. Perfect size, shape, look etc. Great. I may meet a girl in the future and she may say that I'm not as big as the last one she had, she may faint in shock at the size of it. Some guys have huge dicks, but they are ugly as hell. Some guys have tiny dicks but they get the job done. Some guys are fat, thin, masses of hair, hairless, bald, ugly, good looking. Don't stress it.

As Littlelady says, it's the other things that get you attention. You can't walk around with ya junk hanging out, or have a window in your trousers showing off what you got. Besides, who'd want a woman/guy who just wants you for your dick size? Seems a bit shallow to me and not worth anybody's time. If it concerns anyone that much, go see a hooker or hire an escort.

Well Joe the "Littlelady" had it exactly right when she said "you gotta work with what you have." I have been married to the same woman for 50 years and have 2 kids and 3 grandchildren so I think my little 4 inch cock works just fine. My wife has always been happy with my little cock but since I have always been a chronic masturbator I have spent a lot of time in adult theaters and peep shows with glory holes. I have seen a lot of cocks and believe me there are lots of us with cocks under 5 inches in length so you are not alone. Your hands don't care how big your cock is and any woman that does isn't worth wasting your time on anyhow. So just relax, and enjoy the great pleasure that masturbation can give you and if you find a woman that is happy with you the way you are, keep her around.

I met a guy with a 3" cock, it was fun to suck, especially me on my back with my head hanging over the edge of the mattress. No gagging & feeling his warm load shoot into my mouth. He tried to enter my ass at my request, could tell he was frustrated by him finger fucking me very hard with 3 fingers & then cumming on my hole. He scooped it up & fed it to me then kissed me & licked my lips.

I'm cursed with the genetics of my German-Irish heritage, so I'm not extensively sized. About 5.5 inches -- which is the American average. I had always wanted to be longer and girthier, like the studs I saw in porn, and fretted about it for many years until my wife (my girlfriend at the time) once told me that I needed only to be long enough to reach from me to her. It was a huge confidence booster, and we've been together for 27 years now.

Be confident in your abilities in bed. Can you make her come? Does she like being with you? That's all that matters. Really. Don't be afraid to bring toys into the situation. Get really good at oral sex. Make her happy, and she'll make you happy.

Confidence is sexy. Women know that ... and most of them will say as much. Sure, they might be interested in gigantic cocks on one level, but it's not really that different from guys who are viscerally attracted by gigantic tits. They might like to see them, but who do they come home to?

Well there are those of us out there that just love small dicks ... count me in!

ive got a small dick and have no problem with it. it fits snugly inside panties which is a great bonus!

Not at all, especially in cold weather.