If I could set up a meet with a buddy I have talked to a few times here in the Tampa area I would meet, that would be hot since I'm looking for a regular j/o buddy.

Too many timewasters/dreamers around...

I've committed to meet only twice. Once visited someone and once hosted. I don't make plans without texting and making sure what the accepted limits are. It's usually easy to see who the flakes are.

Chatted with a guy on Skype from here. Chatted for 1 night, all was good.
He sent the next night that he wanted to do it again. I waited about an hour at his request. Chatted for a few minutes and he wanted to call...HECK YES..
Talked for 30 seconds and he hung up. Ugggggg.

WHY????

I flaked out once - got a weird vibe from the guy, but had already set up the meet. Rookie mistake. I learned from that to have plenty of conversation beforehand to make sure theyre normal. You can usually identify the weirdos very easily. But generally, after I followed through once I havent had a problem with cold feet. As someone else said, there are a lot of dreamers around but they just need to get through that initial nervousness once.

ive had more than a few of no-shows after making a hook up date. funny they sound so needy, send horny dick pics then dont show after i said i was just going to suck and swallow, nothing more. i know a lot of guys chicken out or lose interest after they jerk off to the fantasy of actually showing up. the fantasy of hook ups and non-str8 sex is hot but real life sex is kinda different.

it is best to meet and just chat first. maybe a drink to lubricate the inhibitions, right? i mean, the fantasy is awfully fun but the real thing can be amazing!

I also learned to meet up first somewhere public, preferably where you can get a drink if you want. At first it was for my own benefit - and still is, I suppose - but it does tend to help put everyone more at ease.

We all know a hard cock has its own brain.. when your real brain actually has to make the meet-up that's a different thing.. when you're horny, your cocks brain will say yes to anything.

i made two arrangements and the other guys chickened out. I guess they were stressed and I must admit i was stressed as hell too.. the first one didn't open the doors and the other one stopped replying when I got in his town after 2h journey..
a few times i flaked out but during making the arrangement

find some one that will share a few pics and emails, then a phone call. then make a date to cam and mic together. if that goes well, theres no way either of you will NOT want to show up. do yourself a favor, dont get your expectations up with some one that wont let you hear their voice and show you their body. i did a couple of times and wished the hell, i wouldnt have shown up!

Ive had a guy not turn up before but wasnt annoyed. It can be nerve wracking so I fully understand. On my fabguys profile I make it clear that I understand the nerves. If they want to not turn up just let me know and it will be fine

have to meet to see if you get along but yeah, got to be in the mood too. those meet&suck buds just too much for me. porn and play more my speed if in SC.

I've chickened out of a few meets. The main reason was because they weren't what I was looking for and my horniness is what made me schedule the meetup.

A few times I have purposely cancelled at the last minute, as a test just to see if the guy was cool with being flexible, because I am usually looking for a long-term bud who is understanding

Haven't been lucky enough to arrange meets, let alone chicken out of any 🤣