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imark Amateur Jackinchatter

203 posts since 2010-11-18
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How long did your relationship with your JO bud last and who was it?

For me it was 4 years from the time I was 16-20 and he was my best friend at the time. He was the one who initiated things during a sleepover at his house with some penthouse magazines. It pretty much started with us both looking at magazines and then him saying "do you mind if I" as he slid his shorts off. I then (laying on a bed across from him) watched him for a bit then got naked myself and we both jacked off until we both came. Our jacking together eventually progressed to us jacking each other off and some cock in butt rubbing. We stopped when we were 20 and both had serious girlfriends.
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justaguy120 Amateur Jackinchatter

170 posts since 2010-03-14
38 year old homosexual male from Canada
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ours was 4 years.. from 14 - 18. stopped when I had to move away for university , met up after my first semester, but then he moved so we didn't get to see each other.
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Some were one-offs and some lasted up to ten years. strokestrokestroke
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ChiefH Skilled Jackinchatter

865 posts since 2018-07-30
74 year old bisexual male from Florida, Panhandle
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About 3 years!!
ChiefH, love uncut cocks and bald pussies
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JJSheffield Skilled Jackinchatter

988 posts since 2015-10-23
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Couple of years, couple of very good years.
Sheffield area UK pan and anti negativity.
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Daryl78 Novice Jackinchatter

83 posts since 2018-09-11
84 year old curious transgender male from Sherman Texas
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It lasted a good 2 years then we got part time jobs and drifted apart.
Old but still jacks and cums
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712 posts since 2011-04-19
70 year old bisexual from Australia
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My best mate & I had a partnership that lasted just on 10 years...from when we were 12 to around 22 (When we both got married)I was the one who started things off between us(because I had already had a fair bit of experience with my older brother)as I was, even at that age, an avid cock sucker. But over the course of 10 years.....well there wasn't anything we didn't try at east once. After we were married I moved to another state and we lost contact. I often fantasize about meeting back up with him and just dropping to my knees and start sucking him off as though we had never stopped.....I wonder what he would do?
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kungfu40 Amateur Jackinchatter

411 posts since 2007-10-27
bisexual from Canada
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With my first buddy it was about 2 and a half years, only ended because my family moved to another city. He introduced me to jacking and sucked me to my first orgasm that same night! He then serviced me at every opportunity for the next 2 1/2 years, regular blowjobs were a dream come true for a shy 12 year old!

I got lucky again at 18 with my next buddy, we jerked and sucked together on and off over a 14 year period, he even fucked my ass quite a few times (which I LOVED!). Our friendship drifted in part because my first wife didn't like him (oh if only she knew lol).

And ever since (about 19 years now), I have had no same-sex action. I am happily married (to wife number 2) and we have a good sex life, but I sure do crave cock now and then! If one of my friends were to approach me now I would be sorely tempted!
Whatever gets your rocks off!
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JackMakokov Amateur Jackinchatter

257 posts since 2016-03-31
53 year old male from Southeast US
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I had two. With the first, it lasted for 14 years with breaks for me to leave my hometown for college. We would take things back up whenever I was home and then when I returned home after I graduated. Things ended when he moved away due to getting a job half the country away. Have tried to reconnect with him but apparently he's become rather religious and uninterested.

My second was during my Sophomore year in college. Lasted a little more than two months. He dropped out of school and I lost contact with him. No idea what happened to him.
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maddrapper Amateur Jackinchatter

141 posts since 2008-10-01
54 year old heterosexual from NYC
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have a bud going on 27 yrs. started jerking to vhs porn togther in 92. now its streaming to the 55 inch hdtv and pounding our dicks side by side.
MADDRAPPER - jerkin' it daily since the 80's
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mentiat Amateur Jackinchatter

239 posts since 2009-06-26
60 year old curious from fingerlakes ny
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had a high school buddy for just one summer ... then the best, a good married buddy for about 2 years .. big dry spell now and looking for that FWB situation again .. anyone near me interested !!!!!
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gondo Professional Jackinchatter

1117 posts since 2008-02-09
70 year old curious male from Toronto, Canada
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My buddy and I stroked and frotted each other for two and a half - three years, from age 13 to 16. He was a couple of years older and clearly had some experience with other guys, including another guy I knew. He had a long dick and came by the bucket-load. Clean-up was a bitch but it was fun getting it on me!
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807 posts since 2018-07-04
84 year old bisexual male from East Central Indiana
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imark said:
How long did your relationship with your JO bud last and who was it?

For me it was 4 years from the time I was 16-20 and he was my best friend at the time. He was the one who initiated things during a sleepover at his house with some penthouse magazines. It pretty much started with us both looking at magazines and then him saying "do you mind if I" as he slid his shorts off. I then (laying on a bed across from him) watched him for a bit then got naked myself and we both jacked off until we both came. Our jacking together eventually progressed to us jacking each other off and some cock in butt rubbing. We stopped when we were 20 and both had serious girlfriends.


Mine started when I was about 60 and lasted 2-3 years. It was the closest to heaven I'll ever get. He was gay, I curious. We were same height, weight, same cut cock size (a little over 8"wink and enjoyed the same things; oral and manual sex. I wasn't into reciprocating the oral for the first year or so, then he taught me how to enjoy it. Sadly he passed and I have yet to find anyone to match him.
Why I waited so long to enjoy m/m activities, I don't know. Actually I think it was a natural progression after a certain age.
Tough to find a regular bud, but I can't stop looking!
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GraysAnatomy Omnipitant Jackinchatter

26681 posts since 2015-04-06
81 year old bisexual male from Central US
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I had several jack-off buddies starting in high school and going through college (5 to 6 years) and then since my wife died I have had one for 13 years, although we often do more than just jack-off.
. . . . . . . . . . Surely no one is so naive they really believe a 5.2 inch erection is considered average . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .I see more 5.2 inch flaccid cocks than I do of little 5.2 inch erections. . . . . . . . . . .
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MarriedJOBuddy Novice Jackinchatter

71 posts since 2014-07-07
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Mine were about 6-7 years. I had two kinda around the same time, at about 11. We just started talking about jacking off when we were learning how to do it, so naturally it was something we just started doing with each other! Lots of good memories. Each of my buds were separate, we only all 3 stroked together once during a truth or dare session. Otherwise it was just me and one of them. That lasted through highschool. The one bud I jacked with the most I met up with once in college and we had a nice "reunion" jack session which was awesome.

I miss those days a lot. Married now so I would never seek out a bud, but I love chatting about it especially with other guys who had similar experiences growing up.
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