when they get MARRIED????!!!! WTF.

I don't think this applies to all women just so you know. I've never been married so I can't answer for that. I never stopped giving my ex bf blowjobs but they did get much less often: but the reason was that he was very selfish. He gave me oral only a handful of times and I got damn tired of giving when I wasn't getting anything! I enjoy giving a bj so that wasn't it...I just wanted him to know he had to give back. As he's my ex now it doesn't much matter.

Just the opposite here....give her oral every time, no bj for years though

Hmm sounds like she and my ex would do well together. You're a real nice guy though to keep giving her pleasure without getting it in return. I know how frustrating that gets.

"Cos I think women don't really like it.

I don't know... if someone special, male or female, was keepin me happy with oral stuff I'd probably be happy returning the favor. duh!

I give my wife a tongue lashing from time totime but she never retuns the favour. Dunno why though

Maybe I'd suggest talking to her and sorta ask her about things.

Getting blowjobs is nice but I get more of a thrill going down on a woman. I don't particularly like just sitting or laying there like a slug getting blown when I could be doing so many more exciting things during sex.

(1)If they stop after you get married, they probably didn't like giving them in the first place.
(2) if they never give them its because of the way they were raised , or they feel it is degrading.

I give my wife oral at every opportunity. Not every time we have sex, but I like it and she knows I like it. I grew up in a house where sex and women's bodies were never mentioned and I had (and have) a crazy fascination with giving pleasure to women and I want to know her as intimately as possible.

She on the other hand has an old-fashioned idea that guys are "yucky" and only gives oral for her own purposes (if i'm losing the erection) -- I have never cum from oral sex in my life, probably because I never had anyone who was enthusiastic about giving it.

Definitely has to do with the way we were raised.

We have been married over 40 years.
I get more blow jobs now than I ever have. She will give to me because she knows I like it.
However, she likes me giving her oral less than she used to, and usually I get her off by hand.

LUCKY!!!! maybe she doesn't want sex and just sucks you off?

Wife and I are both 37. Been together for 14 years, married 8, and through all that time, she has never stopped giving me spectacular head.

On our second date ever, she sucked my cock and swallowed my load. I knew then she was "the one".

I will say rarely now does she suck me to orgasm and/or swallow, it's usually just to get me primed for sex these days, but I don't care. I'll always love the feeling of her lips wrapped around my cock.

Its a two edged sword they give it as they receive it,so dont be ataker you have to please her also and so shall you receive,thats been my take on it