I suppose everybody is different and different people's situations are maybe different too so that matters whether someone wants to do this or not, I think. And mostly too if you really like someone or especially are in love with someone you're more likely to really WANT to have oral stuff going with someone. Well and then too, I know talking to a few friends, that sometimes some people are just more pleasant to be that way with... not just lookswise, but smell and tastewise too? I know I've run across it even with other girls I'm around sometimes, but even a lot more with guys that some ppl just don't smell very good! I mean body odorwise... yuck! I don't think you have to be all perfumed if your female...or cologned or aftershaved up if you are a guy, but just not smell BAD. Personally I don't care to much for aromas people put on themselves, guys or girls. To me just no smell is just the best. But yeah, I've got friends who have said so and so smelled like he hadn't washed down there for a week. I mean I suppose a lil guy smell is sorta nice but were do you draw the line... too much guy smell, b o, is just gross! So smell is definitely something I think us girls will sometimes determine whether we're willing to do a guy orally. Idk.

Yes! You said it, Firefly! HYGIENE, people! WASH yourselves! I absolutely love that my lover and I start nearly every session with a shower together. It's fun to help clean one another and it acts as excellent foreplay for us both. By the bye, water tends to wash away our natural lube, guys, so bear that in mind when you're playing with your gal in the water. Soap, on the other hand, has...uh...multiple uses.

Yes, being clean is absolutely a necessity. I certainly don't want to be going down on a guy that smells. Ummm... totally a turn off.

Another point, related to the question of why ladies "stop" giving oral sex, relates to expectations. Just because I'm open to pleasing someone orally doesn't mean that I'm interested in having sperm all over my face, on my breasts, etc. I think some guys have the mistaken impression that a "facial" is every girl's fantasy. While it might be your fantasy, it's certainly not mine. If you ask nicely, and do something for me in return, I'm more than happy to pleasure you orally but don't expect that it's going to turn into some scene from a cheap porn film. At least for me, it's not very likely.

DITTO! It's sticky, it gets in my hair, and it's fucking impossible to wash out. I'd really rather just swallow it, please. Do this, and that's more than likely the last bj you'll see from me.

LOL... yeah, many guys probably don't spend a lot of time with their own cum and thus don't realize that it's actually pretty stringy and not exactly something that's just going to wash right out. The idea of having to brush through my hair 20 times to get little bits out is not at all exciting. Plus, I already have a nice shampoo and conditioner... I don't need anything extra in my hair.

If I've been with a guy a few times and we seem to be hitting it off I might be inclined to swallow but right out of the gate the guys are probably going to have to find someplace else to end up cumming...

Yeah, my wife has never stopped and in fact she loves giving BJ's (as does she love receiving oral in return.) But my wife, by far, prefers to swallow. If we do, on occasion do something else with the cum, she really wants me to try to get it on skin, not hair. Personally, I see no reason to do anything else but let her swallow. I mean, I'm cumming and she is enjoying pleasing me so why change? I'm good with it!