She'll jerk me until I'm really hard and then deep throat my cock. She makes sure I don't cum. And then spreads her legs and guides me into her pussy.

My wife would never suck me off, and we've been married for decades, even though my favorite sexual activity is to eat her out, often untill she orgasms. I prefer to be on the bottom in 69 while I'm eating her and I love it when she trembles and grinds her juicy pussy into my face. Sometimes I think if I quit eating her out maybe she would take the hint and start sucking me. I've tried that but she can go without being eaten longer than I can go without eating her.

So, that's why early in our marriage I began visiting adult book stores, where I began going into the video booths to jerk off while I watched porn vids of guys getting sucked, where I discovered gloryholes with guys who loved to watch me stroke, and guys who BEGGED to suck my cock, where after getting awesome blow jobs a few times I began to wonder what is there about sucking cock that so many guys want to do it, and where I decided I should at least try it once just to see what it's like and maybe as a reward for the guys who make my cock feel so good, and where I discovered that I love the feel of a warm cock, hard or soft, in my mouth, and love sucking on it for as long as it takes to make that guy tremble and convulse and blow his hot lov juice into my mouth to let me know what a great job I did sucking him off and bringing him the pleasure I used to crave. I say "used to crave", because after getting some experience sucking cock I found that I enjoy that more than I enjoy getting sucked. Maybe it's just for the sexual excitement instead of the actual orgasm. I can only cum once and then the excitement is over for a while, but if I make other guys cum instead, the excitement keeps going as long as more guys keep coming into the booth next door and sticking their cocks thru the hole.
There just aren't enough glory holes anymore.

My wife is very willing, but I can always tell the enthusiasm is a bit forced. So we haven't done that in a long time now. I only want to do what she really wants to do in her heart.

I came in her mouth a few times, and she always spit it out. I never thought about her swallowing it back in those days. Apparently she didn't either.

Speaking for myself, I never got a BJ from my wife, until very late in life when she used it to get me hard for her own pleasure. Because I never came in her mouth before, I can't now.

Lucky when my wife does suck my cock she lets me cum on her face which is love to do, or. If I fancy it over her big tits

I was married to three different woman and have gotten blowjobs from all three. Wife #1 did it a few times as I recall and it finished with a hand job. Wife#2 was a Filipina and she only swallowed during the first BJ. During our long marriage she would bribe me with blowjobs for money so she could gamble and always had a wash cloth to blot my cock of any fluids. Wife#3 was a great cock sucker and always sucked me off and swallowed my load. I really miss her talented mouth and tongue.