Haven't had a JO buddy since 7th grade, when my buddy and I used to do it together in my bedroom. It started out with us just pumping our dicks. Then we would jerk each other off and eventually got to mutual sucking and butt humping. Then he moved away. I'm still looking for another bud.

That is SO funny, yet SO true! I'm LMAO here.

I'd say you summed the whole situation up quite well. Nicely done!

I have found a couple JO buds on Grindr, i realize its a gay dating app but there are guys looking for buds on there too

aWe were overly horny buds in hs and each of our dads had gret porn to sneak. Havent had another for many years!

Thankfully, all my buddies in the past have also asked me. I never had the nerve. They just came out and asked..."So, you wanna try giving me a blowjob?" Or "You ever suck another guy off?" We were either looking at porn magazines or watching porn videos at the time. Perhaps they knew the best time to ask was when we were both horny, I don't know. Whatever, over the years, I sucked those two guys off almost 150 times (between the 2 of them), so it all worked out for both of us! But, that was 30 years ago.

Today...the problem with asking guys in real life (current friends, co-workers, acquaintances, etc) is that you could end up ruining a lot of things if they aren't into it. Perhaps your friendship, your job, your relationship with your GF, or your marriage. You're taking a really big chance when you bring it up, so many men never do it.

The alternative is to try to meet someone online. That's what I recommend. Use an online name and join some sites that cater to this.
silverdaddies, adam4adam, daddy dater, doublelist, maybe even wifelovers. Search online for bi dating sites and you'll find more. Sites like this one allow you to send PMs.

Since your identify is kept private by a fake name/handle, you eliminate the "what if my friend turns me down" situation. You contact the person thru whatever site, then email/message some conversation on what each of you are into. During this conversation, I try to get a feeling for the person's past sexual experience. If they're sucking cock at the adult book store every weekend, then they're not for me. I can't be bringing something home. I also try to figure out what kind of person they are. We share pics, stories, experiences, all through email. No phone number. Period. (Get a free email account for your escapades through yahoo, hotmail, gmail, etc.) If I get an uneasy feeling for any reason, then I move on. We never meet and we never end up knowing who each other is. No harm, no foul.

Eventually, you'll have to meet up in person, whether it's for some fun or just for a meet and great at a public place. In the bizarre coincidence that you happen to know the person when you see them, well, you already know what each other likes. You both have the goods on each other. That pretty much guarantees secrecy between you.

When it's time to meet, you just have to man up and go do it. No doubt, it's still a nervous situation, but if you want to do it, then you just have to do it. There's really no getting around that one. If you meet at a coffee house first, just to say hi, it will probably lighten the stress of meeting later for some fun.

My first jackoff bud I found on Craigslist. Turns out he was right down the street from me. I could walk there from my house. At first we jacked off together while we watched porn in his living room, then we graduated to making out and sucking dick. I've had a few of those since then, always looking for more. Non-freaks.

Same for me. We met in 5th grade and were close friends. We went through puberty and discovered jacking off together.

Would love to find a jo bud in north Germany
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Mine was by chance. I was at a porn movie store. walked up to a booth with an open door. looked in and it was a guy that lived two doors from me. Big surprise, he had his dick out and looking into a glory hole. He quickly zipped up and went out of the store. A few days later I ran into him near our homes, I talked to him and was quite often about my habits. Put him at ease and we soon became jack off friends very nice to have a friend that close. we watched porn, jacked off and jacked each other and shared wife's dirty panties for cum and smell. Lasted over two years until I moved to new town

Of the 3 guys that I have had contact with, I met one on CL, and two on SwingerLifestyles. I also met up with 2 guys from Silverdaddies, but the attraction/chemistry was not there to take it any further.

I tried the doublelist.com suggestion today. Got lots of hits from people. Already trading pics and working on meetups.

Met mine at an adult theater while I was sniffing my wifes panties. He sat next to me and enjoyed her scent with me then asked if I had a pic of her. He said, "I know her, she was my nextdoor neighbor growing up " scared me to death thought I was busted bigtime but he was cool. Now he hangs out alot at our house and secretly pervs my wife. So fucking hot some of the things hes told me about her.

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