My wife and I have settled into watching each other masturbate. Not all the time but we both find if hot to watch each other play with ourselves it is our main play time together and works well. We talk more about sex then and she ask me more about when I jack off alone what all I do.

Not really. But good to hear about your wife. Kind of hot.

My wife occasionally likes to wank me while I look at porn. When she thinks I am about to cum she squeezes my cock to try and hold it back. We have been looking at urethra play porn and she is trying work her little finger in to my cock now to act as a block. Gets me sooooo hard.

That is hot.

I would like to think many couples do this. We have found it a lot of fun to sit and play as the other watches. My wife cums easy and often two or three times being watched. She did masturbation with girlfriends in high school and had much fun and turn on/. As sho got older she had one friend who did it with her. They all did oral. but now she has found playing at same time as me is fun. We do not do it often but when we do it is always hot view and cum

Sounds great

I have become pretty open about masturbating. I usually hang out naked or without pants while watching TV with my wife. And I usually get hard. For a long time I would jack off lightly when she was not paying attention and move my hand away when she did. I also have naked-boner-days every very few weeks. when I wake up naked and boned on a Sat morning, I keep it hard while she gets ready to go shopping for the day. Then I will JO all day and still be going when she gets home. Those days I show no shame and move from room to room playing with my hard dick. She will usually come in and out of the rooms I am in and sometimes we work projects together like household repairs. This week is a bit of a turning point because she is out of town visiting family and I am home naked. I was clear about my intention to stay naked and boned up all week. We talk a couple times per day when she has a some time and she always asks what I am doing so I decided to be open and tell her I am laying in the couch naked and playing with my dick. Then we talk about whatever and i whack off.

Lucky guy

That is great. My wife likes to jack me off when my dick is out. We have sex after a while unless she gets tired, then I will JO for another couple hours.

Since our very first date! We've had an open masturbation policy ever since.

I enjoy watching porn and masturbating with my wife. It is only a recent occurrence, but we enjoy watching each other get off. I have masturbated with all of my long term gfs prior to getting married too

I'm 73, married 50 years, and I can confirm from my Internet travels, a large number of couples masturbate together. I don't see anyway around it. It's hard for a male to bring a female to climax, compared to a female causing the male to cum. Since males are dominate, generally, their wishes prevail.
I see men suggesting that their wives masturbate with them, once it's clear that the male ill masturbate while the male goes through her "periods." from this, it's only a step to the wife doing what she's done since her teen years, self-fuck, which she does with much more skill than her husband's cock can offer.
Husbands will fantasize, too, about watching the wife fuck another man, and may offer the opportunity, as i did. She would kill me for writing this, by the way.
Voyeurism is part of our lives, I'm learning. It's basic and primordial with the development of our language. We learn to "take the other as an object to ourselves," and then this internalized object becomes part of our thinking and imagination. It's only a step from fantasizing about the wife hand fucking to fucking another cock, sucking cocks, and so forth. This is American Pragmatism speaking, by the way, nothing I conjured up.
We may internalize conversations, as here, we internalize images of others fucking, as on JnC's fucking links, male and female fucking, male and male fucking, and female and female fucking. On those pages we place ourselves in the "other's" place and jack off or fuck someone.
Over twenty years ago I got my wife to sit on my lap as I watched porn on the Internet. I fucked her. She masturbated. I masturbated. Finally, she got pissed off about it and refused to do it. But, on a lucky day, she will masturbate with me. That's the best that I can do anymore. So, if your wife doesn't masturbate with you, you are not realizing the full benefits of marriage, in my opinion. Mutual-masturbation should be the least, lowest common denominator of sex sharing in the bedroom, IMHO.
You have a lot to discover in the world of Internet sex related information. Don't let it get into your married life if it damages your relationship. But, mutual masturbation comes with married life, I believe.

Thanks for sharing this. I now assume that there's a lot of mutual masturbation groups in our society. I suspect there will be more. The curtains are falling around our sex behavior as the Internet reveals stories like yours.

Wow. That is awesome. I would love to watch my wife her get herself off. She has a great body and is very sexy, but she does not masturbate but she tolerates me and participates. She likes to have intercourses, but we both cum within a couple minutes. Her pussy is magical. I like long sessions.

I have found that most women do masturbate Som say they do not. but would guess 90% do play with clit at stages of their life. They just find it hard to admit except to other women... Toy have made it more of a common thing. Think about all the toys out there for women. there is a market big time.