A lot of us here have a close male friend who we are able to hang out with and talk sports or life over a beer or plan a secluded fishing trip together. Society doesn't think much of those types of close male friendships. I wish it were more common and acceptable for men to have those types of close friendships but with the focus being masturbating together.

We pretty much all grew up with this intense taboo surrounding masturbating: you never discuss it. You do it alone and in private. There's a culture of shame around the idea of it. Yet you know that you do it, your best friend does it, your coworker does it; if anything it is the one thing all men have in common, yet none of us are open about it. I wish something like "I love to masturbate! Oh, you do too? Nice! We should hang out sometime. What do you enjoy jerking to?" Was a more common conversation between close male friends. We talk about how men struggle with emotional expression and intimacy, but having those kinds of friends would allow many of us to fill an intimate void we all lack.

I would love make an online friend who understands where I'm coming from.

I also love the dynamic of masturbating with an older man. I am 28, and the dynamic is very erotic. I am not sure if its the idea of having a mentor, or the concept of him being a kind of father figure, but its very sexy to bond with older men over our love of masturbation.

Feel free to message me on my Skype at syntheticdreams2077 Messaging me there referencing the title of this post so I know where you added me from.

still craving something more intimate than a quick one and done stroke. ANy other men seeking a deeper bond and intimacy?

I had a wank mate for about 10 yrs, started when I watched him and his wife fuck on a nude beach and I was single at the time having not long been divorced.
Had a few threesomes with him and his wife and great fun was had by all, then he started to come to mine with home made vids of him, his wife and other blokes and we ended up stroking to them. This became a fairly regular thing over the 10 yrs until they moved area.
Occasionally we chat on cam but it really isnt the same. Hopefully will find another bud soon

smaller boy here, anyone wants to chat on the phone or on skype voice? smaller boy here, looking to chat with bros, big bros, daddies.

always been the smallest in my classes growing up. i'm used to it.

It is a shame more people don't talk about it in 'real life', I reckon it could open up some fun times!

Yeah, I think a lot of guys would realize their freinds jerk to the same thigns, and eventually want to jerk together.

I just drove home through my development and passed a guy mowing his lawn. Eight houses away from me. He looked to be in his 40s, so a bit younger than me but not crazy younger. Good looking guy and fit. I immediately thought three things:

1) Why don't I know this guy?
2) I wonder what kind of porn he likes?
3) Would he like me to suck his cock while we watch together?

I've lived in my house for 23 years. I don't know why I never saw him before. I think this is why we have trouble finding buds. I don't have a close friend.

sent you a PM

Agree completely, it seems natural to me but obviously most people do not feel the same.

Same here, It's a stigma society put on all males. Perpetuated by parents with boys when they enter puberty. It's private and not to be talked about. We need to be more open.. Men just need to be more open with it like on here

I wonder if that's just our generation and maybe the one after because it seems like the current generation does not have the same stigma. Now, I have no idea what it's actually like in high schools and colleges today so just going by entertainment and social media could be greatly skewing my view. Maybe it's accepted easily that there are openly gay guys and that's it rather than what appears to be not only openly gay guys, but a good amount of bi guys. Going to high school in the 70s, there was no acceptance at all and only a bit at college depending on who you knew.

It's definitely a shame, I could have had a lot more fun when I was younger!

Would love to chat about masturbating and turn-ons, etc. Not easy for a married guy though so things like Skype or anything of that nature are quite difficult. It would have to be when alone in the house which is not very often. It's one of the reasons why I like this place where guys can openly chat about what they like to do, what fantasies they have, turn-ons, etc.

Happy to say with some PM's on here if anyone interested.

I've had two 'serious' buddies in the last 10 years or so. My current one is 20 years younger than me (I am a 70 mwm) and he is great. Before this virus thing we used to meet about once every week but that's all gone to hell at the moment. We keep in touch via e mail and intend to get back to regular meetings once this is all over. I'm happy to talk about this here or via e mail or skype/discord etc just drop me a pm.

As I never went away for college I never experienced the whole social thing that goes along with it. I love good porn about dorm action but really don't know if it's true, although I suspect it is. I have a friend whose daughter was constantly bothered by her roommate fucking her boyfriend in the bed in the same room. Another friend's daughter experienced similar but it was two girls in bed, while she was in the room. Of course all the stories did was make me hard as fuck and I needed to jerk off. Especially because the daughter was a regular jerk off target of mine.

I would love to be in the schools now, given the more open society we live in (some of us at least) and the potential freedom the boys have with each other. I'd love to sample some college cock now and I would have loved it 40 years ago when I was in school.