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staples2287 Skilled Jackinchatter

640 posts since 2011-04-25
49 year old heterosexual from US
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Sometimes after I cum I feel very self conscience and maybe even embarrassed. Most often when I masturbate to my friends' wives but also pics where the person in the pic is making eye contact.

I'm sitting there covered in my own semen and I feel like they are looking at me and I feel just a bit uncomfortable sometimes. Does this happen to anyone else?
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144 posts since 2019-12-22
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I feel the same way. However , i still find the urge and need to do it again because im so attracted to my wifes friends and some of my women friends.
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When I started masturbating,I felt very guilty and even tried to stop a few times.of course,as time went on,I really didn't care.you're not hurting anyone,and only enjoy what you like.nobody knows what you're doing,so no reason to feel bad about it.(except we all know,and I'll keep a lookout for your next posts.hehe)
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staples2287 said:
Sometimes after I cum I feel very self conscience and maybe even embarrassed. Most often when I masturbate to my friends' wives but also pics where the person in the pic is making eye contact.

I'm sitting there covered in my own semen and I feel like they are looking at me and I feel just a bit uncomfortable sometimes. Does this happen to anyone else?


I've had exactly that feeling, too. It is almost always after stroking to a photo where she's looking right into the camera and it feels like she is making direct eye contact. If it isn't someone I know, I don't react that way, but if it is someone I know, I do sometimes. For me, it's the eye contact. Makes it far more intense all around.
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640 posts since 2011-04-25
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str855m said:
I've had exactly that feeling, too. It is almost always after stroking to a photo where she's looking right into the camera and it feels like she is making direct eye contact. If it isn't someone I know, I don't react that way, but if it is someone I know, I do sometimes. For me, it's the eye contact. Makes it far more intense all around.


Yes that's exactly what I'm talking about except it also happens to me with women I don't know usually with photos like this:
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Never felt embarrassed, but sometime a little guilty, especially if it's a pic of a woman I know.

Several years ago, I had kind of a crush on a married woman at work. She was a little flirty, so one day I had my SLR camera with me taking shots of employees for a annual report kind of thing.

After this woman's normal head shot, I widened the camera out to get a sneak shot of her gorgeous legs. She noticed what I was doing and pulled one leg up tight against the other and stuck her cute little, perfect ass out in a sexy pose.

Instinctively, I took the shot and it was a masturbator's dream shot. I jacked to it for several years, sometimes in panties, but felt a little guilty after each cum. I eventually deleted the pic. Funny how your mind shifts gears so quickly after ejaculation.
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I call it erotic shame and guilt - I actually love that feeling.
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Never had any shame or guilt
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tp_cain Skilled Jackinchatter

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staples2287 said:
Anyone else feel self conscience or even embarrassed after they cum?


LOL. Fuck no!
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dmich_rbbrman Novice Jackinchatter

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Early-on guilt due to mortal sin. These days more relief and being liberated from the need to wank for some time. "Right-o. Back to work."
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Early on I felt like that until I admitted to myself that I really liked playing with my cock. After that no more guilt, just lust for jerking myself.
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Not guilt or embarrassment but yeah, self-awareness comes back with lightning speed after I cum. I remember my first time jizzing on my wife going from ecstasy to panic because she wasn't on the pill and it flew too close to her pussy! (She was fine.)

Loosening inhibitions is necessary to reach orgasm in the first place. I'm still occasionally surprised, if not exactly ashamed, after I cum to porn or chat about something I would never do IRL.

"What the heck did I just watch/babble about!?"
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About a year ago whilst wanking the image of my neighbour's beautiful daughter popped into my head. Telling myself "no it's not right" she disappeared. For three nights she visited me like Dicken's ghosts until I finally relented. My dick stiffened a few degrees and I had a shattering orgasm, moaning her name over and over again. Afterwards, the sense of shame was palpable but that shame was incredibly arousing and I was unable to stop masturbating over her from then on.
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mrmiwon said:
Early on I felt like that until I admitted to myself that I really liked playing with my cock. After that no more guilt, just lust for jerking myself.
Yup right there with you strokestroke maybe the only shame/guilt I felt was when my mom sat me down to have the 'talk' about me rubbing my cock on the sheet's when so young early 70's. My come back was why does something that feel's so good be so bad? She just looked at and simply stated "Don't let me or anyone else catch you" And that was that.
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It depends what I just done.

If I have just had a babe pee on my and my face am covered in her piss. Then yes.

Or once when I was kissing a babe after her bf just cum on her face whilst I was fucking her in missionary then yes again. When you're fucking a babe the moment takes you away and you don't remember or care another guy just cum on her face. After cuminng you think wtf! After cumming is probably the correct feeling to have about what you just did.

I used to feel guilty about wanking over porn. But after seeing this website. And the way it glorifies masturbation it has changed my view. I now look forward to sessions. Preplan them and have a list of babes I want to go over. You enjoy porn and babes so much more like this. Before I enjoyed it in the moment but the event happened by guilt and I did not really want to do it. This website and other forums truly celebrate porn and masturbation.

To be complexity honest spending a few hours enjoying babes and porn gives me better feeling than sex with the hottest escort. I prefer a good porn session for a few hours.
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