I think one of the most universal things about guys is that we all need our 'guy time.' That can be anything from escaping reality and our girlfriend or wife for a few hours watching a sports game, playing video games, or relaxing and masturbating behind her back. When a guy says he needs a break from the wife, it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love her or wishes he was out of the marriage, but it often means he needs time to himself to relax, unwind, and gather himself before going back to playing the role of partner or husband in the public eye.

I think that is what makes the idea of a jerk buddy so appealing to me is that it connects us with other men who are seeking the same escape for a small amount of time; we need a break from reality and want to share that with someone else who enjoys and appreciates the value in those moments. We understand the need to unwind and masturbate in a way that women can never understand. My wife would certainly be offended that I jerk to porn or that I jerk with other men online, and yet I need that escape to 'recharge' my batteries so to speak.

I am in a complicated situation where I am not conventionally attracted to men, want to have sex with them or make out with them; and yet I love the idea of having a close friend I could masturbate with in the privacy of my finished basement behind my wife's back. I imagine a friend who could come over and we tell her we'll be downstairs and to call down if she needs something as she reads or watches tv, and we take the time and privacy to relax on the sofa down there with a laptop between ourselves sharing porn and masturbating side by side as we shoot our loads; then we go back upstairs to grab a drink as if nothing happened and maintain the outward display of a regular friendship to my wife.

If you can relate to this in any degree, understand where I am coming from, or just want a friend to chat, vent, or masturbate with, hit me up. My kik is xreplicantdreamsx and discord is Replicant#1185 and Skype is SyntheticDreams2077

I know I seek this. I'm curating this relationship as we speak with a buddy of mine. Meeting any minute now. I hope to get my cock out again in his presence as I've stroked to porn with him before but he didn't partake. And this is what I'm hoping may change tonight.

This is a great ideal! I think there's been guys I have jerked with in-person where this would be possible, and the odd jerk session which is still fun but wouldn't result in this kind of relationship. Without a doubt, it's a great way to relax and enjoy company.

I enjoy many masturbation sessions with my male friends.
A great way to relax without any problems.
West midlands if interested in a meet.
Kik kered44

I know exactly how you feel! I wish I had a bud to unwind and blow off a little steam with on a regular basis.

You can search profiles in your area. Send someone a message on here and make it happen.

Great post and fully agree, love my partner but enjoy my solo bate time and while I have no interest in getting physical with a buddy really like the idea of having a jerk bud to share porn and a bate with

I'm having some strong feelings for men on here, jacking. Freeing up a lot of pent up energy - I'm really adoring men and their cocks

synthetic dreams, you couldnt have stated it more perfectly than you did!!! hope to see you on skype some time!

I can identify with so much of this and would also love to find others likeminded to share. live:lupis49_1 on Skype or please PM me here if anyone else feels the same way.

Sounds like a blast, would love to find this

yes. lets

So true. I'm still trying to reconcile wanting to bond with other guys about being naked and sexual without having sex with men or being attracted to them sexually. Nice to see someone state it so well.

I'd like to share my experiences on this.
On the postive I've had a successful bond with a guy I met online about 5 years ago. We live near to eachother and meet (pandemic and lockdown permitting) at least once and usually twice a month for a bit of mutual masturbation and oral. We're both in our 70's and it's a first for both of us.
However, I've also received a very negative experience with a guy who was a long standing friend for a good 20 or more years. Over the years we've had plenty or horny chats about our wives as well as swapping naked pictures of them. He confided in me a few months back that he's recently started fantasising about seeing other guys naked. I was happy to tell him that I've had similar feelings for years. He was pleased to know it wasn't just him, and we subsequently had several discussions about it.
He seemed to be very understanding of the situation so I decided to tell him of the situation that exists between me and my wank buddy. One of his first question was to ask if we do more than just talk about it together. I told him we masturbate together and he then wanted to know if we do it to ourselves or to eachother.
I had no reservations telling him we do it to eachother, but his attitude changed totally. He started off saying how wrong it was but he was "not one to judge". Then as we discussed it more, with me trying to explain about it, he got quite angry, said how sorry he felt for my wife, and that was it. I haven't heard from him since and he's now blocked me on social media. So much for not being judgmental!
So, the lesson is, no matter how well you think you know someone, go careful vefore you reveal too much.

That is a horrible response Baggsy, but it is good to know you have a lot us in our 70s who understand that the feelings you have are quite normal.