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It is a very delicate and difficult subject to bring it up with a friend. Personally I would welcome the approach but sadly not everyone is the same
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I love emotionally connecting with men. But there is so much confusion about what emotions mean, like "oh wow I have a romantic feeling for a man whose face I've never seen....mmm better leave the wife and kids" -- I've got a friend that I've known my whole life stopping by, not going to say a word. There is a brick wall and it's fine it's there -- we're great friends
SyntheticDreams said:
We all need our 'guy time.' time to himself to relax, unwind, and gather himself.
...Come over and maintain the outward display of a regular friendship to my wife.
We all need our 'guy time.' time to himself to relax, unwind, and gather himself.
...Come over and maintain the outward display of a regular friendship to my wife.
Totally agree, when I start to masturbate I go to that zone where time stands still, space is just my private invisible space, hope and excitement comes with every hand movement, through hardening of my penis deep into the internal places and on to head, toe ... and hand again. The same old journey, we all know and love, over and over, and regenerating our eagerness for life. It has to end like any journey but it goes beyond words to say what it's like.
Friends bond through words and a bit more than that, but I can't take an existing friend who knows a whole network of people I know -- can't control the secret space I masturbate in. But someone who understands and can masturbate in that journey beyond words -- would be a friend through the openness we'd have to have to do it together. Every journey has to end, and the first would be a bit awkward and maybe embarrassing but Yes, welcome's.
'To travel hopefully is better than to arrive.' -- RL Stevenson
I've been considering looking for this recently. However, I just met a woman and I'm seeing where it goes (so I'm putting the idea on hold). Anyway, masturbating with another male would be totally cool. I'd really like to have someone watch me masturbate and watch another guy as well. And hear the breathing and final release.
PM me if you like messaging about masturbating!
Hey man -- I like your post. Where are you located @marriedboner? L.A. here.
Interesting thread and ideas posted. Back in the day when I was in the military it was curious the way everything worked out in the barracks. Everyone was scared to death to give anyone a reason to think they were anything but the macho studs we all saw ourselves as, yet every single room mate I had either state side or being over seas always seemed to get to the point that they would bring up an agreement that it was OK to jack off to porn in the room when we were both there, just do not tell anyone we do it.
I have always been bi, and knew this was one of the luckiest things to happen for me, so I never said a word about our mutual agreements as room mates. I think because of that trust I earned from them in not saying anything over a period of time, a few eventually moved on to more creative things and we would jack each other off, and a couple even went to the extreme of wanting to 69 several times after they struck out at the bars and were still horny.
The experience varied with the room mates and was always something I had to figure out from their nonverbal communication, which could be tricky, but was worth the end result in every case.
Prior to undertaking something like this, make sure you understand the person and are very familiar with their nonverbal ques so you do not go further than you should and end up asking something that is not even on the other persons mind.
I have always been bi, and knew this was one of the luckiest things to happen for me, so I never said a word about our mutual agreements as room mates. I think because of that trust I earned from them in not saying anything over a period of time, a few eventually moved on to more creative things and we would jack each other off, and a couple even went to the extreme of wanting to 69 several times after they struck out at the bars and were still horny.
The experience varied with the room mates and was always something I had to figure out from their nonverbal communication, which could be tricky, but was worth the end result in every case.
Prior to undertaking something like this, make sure you understand the person and are very familiar with their nonverbal ques so you do not go further than you should and end up asking something that is not even on the other persons mind.
Its been awhile but now that you mention it I do miss the bond of me and another straight guy masturbating in the same room. Especially if he has a different method of jacking his penis. Idk why. Then playing Madden or whatever,everything unrelated to sex lol.
Scottydapimp
Very well said
marriedboner said:
Totally agree, when I start to masturbate I go to that zone where time stands still, space is just my private invisible space, hope and excitement comes with every hand movement, through hardening of my penis deep into the internal places and on to head, toe ... and hand again. The same old journey, we all know and love, over and over, and regenerating our eagerness for life. It has to end like any journey but it goes beyond words to say what it's like.
Friends bond through words and a bit more than that, but I can't take an existing friend who knows a whole network of people I know -- can't control the secret space I masturbate in. But someone who understands and can masturbate in that journey beyond words -- would be a friend through the openness we'd have to have to do it together. Every journey has to end, and the first would be a bit awkward and maybe embarrassing but Yes, welcome's.
'To travel hopefully is better than to arrive.' -- RL Stevenson
Totally agree, when I start to masturbate I go to that zone where time stands still, space is just my private invisible space, hope and excitement comes with every hand movement, through hardening of my penis deep into the internal places and on to head, toe ... and hand again. The same old journey, we all know and love, over and over, and regenerating our eagerness for life. It has to end like any journey but it goes beyond words to say what it's like.
Friends bond through words and a bit more than that, but I can't take an existing friend who knows a whole network of people I know -- can't control the secret space I masturbate in. But someone who understands and can masturbate in that journey beyond words -- would be a friend through the openness we'd have to have to do it together. Every journey has to end, and the first would be a bit awkward and maybe embarrassing but Yes, welcome's.
'To travel hopefully is better than to arrive.' -- RL Stevenson
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Baggsy2011 said:
I'd like to share my experiences on this.
On the postive I've had a successful bond with a guy I met online about 5 years ago. We live near to eachother and meet (pandemic and lockdown permitting) at least once and usually twice a month for a bit of mutual masturbation and oral. We're both in our 70's and it's a first for both of us.
However, I've also received a very negative experience with a guy who was a long standing friend for a good 20 or more years. Over the years we've had plenty or horny chats about our wives as well as swapping naked pictures of them. He confided in me a few months back that he's recently started fantasising about seeing other guys naked. I was happy to tell him that I've had similar feelings for years. He was pleased to know it wasn't just him, and we subsequently had several discussions about it.
He seemed to be very understanding of the situation so I decided to tell him of the situation that exists between me and my wank buddy. One of his first question was to ask if we do more than just talk about it together. I told him we masturbate together and he then wanted to know if we do it to ourselves or to eachother.
I had no reservations telling him we do it to eachother, but his attitude changed totally. He started off saying how wrong it was but he was "not one to judge". Then as we discussed it more, with me trying to explain about it, he got quite angry, said how sorry he felt for my wife, and that was it. I haven't heard from him since and he's now blocked me on social media. So much for not being judgmental!
So, the lesson is, no matter how well you think you know someone, go careful vefore you reveal too much.
I'd like to share my experiences on this.
On the postive I've had a successful bond with a guy I met online about 5 years ago. We live near to eachother and meet (pandemic and lockdown permitting) at least once and usually twice a month for a bit of mutual masturbation and oral. We're both in our 70's and it's a first for both of us.
However, I've also received a very negative experience with a guy who was a long standing friend for a good 20 or more years. Over the years we've had plenty or horny chats about our wives as well as swapping naked pictures of them. He confided in me a few months back that he's recently started fantasising about seeing other guys naked. I was happy to tell him that I've had similar feelings for years. He was pleased to know it wasn't just him, and we subsequently had several discussions about it.
He seemed to be very understanding of the situation so I decided to tell him of the situation that exists between me and my wank buddy. One of his first question was to ask if we do more than just talk about it together. I told him we masturbate together and he then wanted to know if we do it to ourselves or to eachother.
I had no reservations telling him we do it to eachother, but his attitude changed totally. He started off saying how wrong it was but he was "not one to judge". Then as we discussed it more, with me trying to explain about it, he got quite angry, said how sorry he felt for my wife, and that was it. I haven't heard from him since and he's now blocked me on social media. So much for not being judgmental!
So, the lesson is, no matter how well you think you know someone, go careful vefore you reveal too much.
I'm sorry your friend took that attitude. And very strange of him to want to see naked men but then turned on you when you told him you masturbated mutually with your bud. Seems to me he has issues.
more than likely jealous it was not him
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Having another attempt this evening at kindling a relationship with the aim of jerking off together. Previous posts I've made allude to the same gentleman, wish me luck
Couple of years ago I lived near an adult theater which I visited at least once a week. I jacked it with a lot of anonymous guys there but I kept meeting one particular guy. He was a really cool, friendly, laid back type, mostly straight like me, and we started to hang out and chat between stroke sessions. I wouldn't say we ever became friends but we were always happy to see each other, and got really comfortable together. We had some intense, super-hot masturbation session in the theatre or, more privately, in booths, but also sat around and talked about life, women and any other topic that came up, mostly with our dicks out, or totally naked. It was a cool, sexy, judgement-free experience and I still think about it often.
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I have just cum over a TV screen in the presence of my friend, who suggested I do it. I call this a significant step forward
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