I have another friend,who knows my first friend I wrote about above. We are close, friends. Main thing we have in common is we both used to sleep with same girl, not at same time. We love to get together to discuss her blowjobs as she sadly died in a car crash in our 20s. We always talk sex over beers at pub and somehow always piss together. We both very openly show and look.
So, in September, we do same but this time, after I finish pissing, I put mine away but he doesn't. He gets hard and jerks a bit right in front of me till someone comes in. I just stared in awe. A big boy hard.
He asks me back to his place for Chinese take out and wine. We get pretty trashed drinking on his deck. Sitting side by side on swing couch.
He says this is first time he has relaxed during covid. Puts his hand on my thigh. I'm not usually tactile but it was nice. Then he moves hand up my thigh to inner thigh. I had been saying how I had had no human touch for months.
Just then, as our breathing gets faster, his ex turns up unexpectedly to drop kids off, out of turn.
After a bit, I go to leave. He follows me to hall. Holds me tight. Kisses me on lips (!) and presses in so I can feel his hard on against mine.
I go to my hotel and wank like crazy.
Next month I am back. I tell him how much so enjoyed night with him before and ask him over to hotel for dinner. He comes but is nervous all night. Not relaxed at all. I invite him to room after dinner for nightcap. He just knocks it back, says thanks and leaves. I'm left..confused! Any insights,guys? He's newly divorced. I'm married but no sex at home. At all

He confused thats all. I've suck a few times, always had beer in me. I wank off and talk to guys (mic) and its a huge turn on. Some mate turned up on my door now stone cold sober and said suck me off.........I probably would:-)