I was a virgin until 24. Had chances to do it sooner, but it never felt right. It's not that I had some romantic notion of "wanting it to be special" but I really had no interest in some complicated situation when all I wanted was a one time thing. So I waited. I did a lot of jacking, but that never really changed even after I started having sex. I found that sex is different that masturbating, sometimes you want one, sometimes you want the other.

the great Swiss painter Paul Klee said that virginity is the most over rated and useless of all virtues, his early etching of Virgin in a Tree is very frightening piece of art

It is interesting, the ancient Egyptians had no word for "virgin" or "virginity." That is a very puritanical concept that should be ignored.

I'm still a virgin and happy about it (mostly). I came really close to loosing my virginity a few years ago but in hindsight I really like the idea of only being with one woman (I've committed to waiting till I'm married). Sure, sometimes I wish I wasn't but then I remember why I'm waiting. :-)

38 here and still a virgin. to scared to change it with a hooker. older i get still stay as horny as i ever have

im a straight virgin but im very comfortable about it. i have turned down a lot of women i just didnt feel i connected with. if i stay a virgin a while longer thats fine with me. i enjoy jacking a lot and i still date and jack off afterwards. im not shy around the ladies, just really picky.

I'm a virgin too, although like many of you I've done just about everything else with a girl. I'm not too picky when it comes to who I'll date, but so far I've consistently found girls who are sexually adventurous up to the point of actually having sex, but then they'd rather hold off for one reason or another.

I don't see anything wrong with it, though. I've had plenty of great non-penetration experiences. As someone said earlier in the thread, my only regret is watching porn and not knowing exactly what it feels like to be inside a woman. I'm eager to have that opportunity, but I also want it to be with the right girl.

I don't understand people who supposedly "choose" to remain a virgin. Why would you deny yourself pleasure? And please don't give me some trite BS about "waiting for the right person." It's sex. It's about feeling good. It isn't "mystical" or "sacred." Give me a break. People who claim this are either, (A) too lame to get lame or (B)have bought into idiotic fundamentalist, puritan, neo-Victorian religious stupidity. I'm not impressed with people who remain "virgins" late in life.

Hi!
I'm 45 and still a virgin male.
Believe it or not, but it's true: i never fuck or be fuck with any girl or guy.
I masturbated 2 times with girls and many times with guys.
For many years I used play with several jerk off buddies.
I'm now totally OK with my virginity and my masturbation sexuality.
Any other men like me here?