Shortfuse I think you are being a bit harsh, in that I don't think all women are using their sexuality to get men to do what they want and then treat them like crap. But many of them do It's really tough to find a woman who you can have a really equal loving relationship with over the long haul But it can be done. But the high divorce rate is evidence that it is not all that common.

I think you are absolutely right about guys though. No games no drama. Just in it for the sheer pleasure of it. That's what I love so much about playing with guys. It's refreshing and exciting for it to simply all be about getting off and feeling satisfied. That's all I need from a sexual relationship.

The older I get the more attracted to men i become. Dont get me wrong I love women of all ages and find them so utterly sexy. do I wank to straight sex.. hell yes. No sex with my wife for about 15 years as she lost all interest in sex after her operation. I perv on all the lovelies I see but I know there is no chance with other women. They want loving, emotion, stability and all that goes with it. I have been bi since 12 and had 2 great wank buddies all thru teens. Not into romance with a guy but just want his cock and cum. I used to travel a lot for work and in last 10/12 have met many men in my hotel rooms. We arrange it online and they come to my room by arrangement. Within minutes we are naked and wanking each other like long lost buddies. Not into kissing or anal but love everything else guys can get up to. No drama or demands but just 2 guys getting off together. I have met some of them several times and really wish I had a regular wank buddy for weekly sessions. Best I can manage now during Covid is camming so hit me up on Skype if you like that too. Addy on my profile

I guess I should be more clear.

I am pushing 50yo, balding, have a small dick, and I'm not rich. I won't pay for sex, buy gifts, etc.

So any woman coming on to me or willing to have sex with me has a motive. They aren't doing it because I'm an Adonis with a 10" cock and six pack abs. They have something they want. If they don't get it they are apt to burn you.

I love sex and I am a pleaser. Even though my cock is small, I've been told I'm a great lover. I'm open minded and will to try lots of things.

WEll said!

I was seeing a woman about 15 years ago, that I met on AdultFriendfinder. We were both in our late 40s at the time. She supposedly was about casual sex...
We got together 3 or 4 times, and had amazing sex (mutual oral, fantastic fucking). The last time we fucked I finished with my dick buried in her ass.

I thought things were going well until the last time I stopped by her apartment. When I got there, she told me I had to go out and get her a birthday cake and a gift (I had no idea it was her birthday). When I told her I didn't have enough to buy here these things she got riled up and basically told me to get lost (I was going through some financial difficulties at the time - no cash and maxxed out credit cards. So, I really couldn't afford the birthday cake).

I guess I learned that there really is no such thing as casual sex with women.

I have enjoyed many experiences receiving and giving JO and blowjobs with men. Never had one ask me for a birthday cake.

(Also, I have had my cock sucked by quite a few women - some pretty good - but none as good as a man who is good at it).

100% spot on. I've had sex with dozens and dozens of men and there has never been a time when any of the has asked for anything.

On the flip side, every single woman I've ever hooked up with always used sex to get me hooked, then went in for the kill. They want money, favors, a relationship, gifts, etc. And they shut down the pussy if they don't get it.