OK--the purpose of this thread is not to dump on anyone's fetish or turn-on. God knows I have some of my own that I dare say others might find strange. But there are a couple things in porn culture that seem pretty mainstream for a lot of guys, and I just don't get the appeal, so maybe some of you can help me understand the attraction.

1. The celebrity thing. Fantasizing about celebrities doesn't work for me. I don't care how good-looking they are, I just can't get excited about them. Maybe it's because they seem unattainable to me, so I don't bother. I get far more aroused thinking about "real" women that I might meet in the grocery store. What is it about celebrities that so many guys find alluring?

2. Anal. OK--I love it when my lady lightly toys with my ass with her fingers, and I would be seriously turned on if she rimmed me. But when I go to the doctor and get the old finger up the bum, it doesn't do anything for me erotically. Why do some guys seem to want it up the bum, and why do so many seem to enjoy the idea of fucking a woman up the ass when it is so painful?

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I suspect the celebrity thing is because some of us like to fantasise about the unobtainable, that woman we know in real life wouldn't touch us with a barge pole, whereas others prefer to concentrate on the type of woman we think we could get in real life. It's just whatever suits you best.

Personally, I can go with either side of the coin, depending on my mood.

Celebrity thing does not work for me either .I notice the UK guys really seem to be into it ,maybe they can clue us in .
I have a P-spot anal toy that have had mixed results with . Now the ladies from what my wife told me some of the ladies don;t have much sensitivity around the anal area so they could care less about a poke there but some ladies are blessed WITH sensitivity there and they can even have an orgasm from anal just by it's self !

I'm UK and can't stand celebrity, but Love it up my arse.

Never happier than when my unfamous 'real' wife dons her strapon and gives my butthole a good pounding.

But its no fun when a Doctor pokes a digit up there I agree!

"barge pole" I guess that is the same thing as a "10 foot pole" here in the colonies

I don't get the "celebrity" thing, either. Sure, there are some that I find quite attractive, but have never reached the point of masturbating to one.

As for anal, the difference in your question is all about context. I've enjoyed fingers, tongues, toys, and cocks in my ass. But an exam in a doctor's office isn't about sexual pleasure, so it's not an arousing experience.

Pretty much the same meaning yes.

Flogger---I am with you, brother. Other elements I don't get include:

Tattoo worship: Why deface a lovely body?
any porn including bathroom activities
bestiality
gaping anything

I like celebrities because some get naked. The ones who don't are just sexy.

I'm a gay bottom for pete's sake and I don't even remotely enjoy getting a finger up the waz at the doctor's. It gives me the creeps, tbh.
In the bedroom, however, it's a different matter. It's almost never painful, quite the opposite.

One thing that bugs me in porn is shitty music. I'm checking out a pair of hotties going at it and turn up the volume and it's "band on the run" played on a friggin' casio keyboard. STOP THAT! Porn producers who do that should be chemically castrated, imho.

1. it's not the celeb status as much as it's stimulation. that's it. there is nothing else to anything regarding... anything. stimulation is key. i think the woman across the street is hotter than pretty much any celeb i've seen but for a few. i pump cock in my basement hoping she's peeking through her topfloor window at some point in my life.

2. it doesn't hurt; that's a myth. however, if the old lady likes to finger the bum... just fucking wait til you get rimmed. you will take that over getting your cock sucked til the day you die. it's fucking amazing stim... u... lation (there's that word again)

in this day and age they do? name 5 current ones i'd love to know who they are.

Celebs are a huge thing on just about every masturbation forum, but I've never had much use for them. I can see that if you are watching an actress or entertainer all the time, they can become very eroticised for you (but are you exposing yourself to that much Taylor Swift?). This is rarely the case for me, and even then I need more erotic pictures than what most guys seem willing to fap to. I have to admit there are some Tara Fitzgerald nude scenes I've successfully jacked off to.

My top two, Emily Browning and Emilia Clarke.

Emily Kinney, Nathalie Emmanuel, Olesya Rulin, Malin Akerman, Milla Jovovich, Natalie Dormer, Rose McIver, Anna Paquin, Cameron Richardson,

Stacy Dash and Teri Polo posed for Playboy.