You hear people say "I almost came in my pants" -- but does this really happen? I mean without direct rubbing between your legs... something else or a touch somewhere else on the body makes you come....

Ladies, I guess, might -- from breast touching or just being more receptive to general stimulation?
Guys -- what about you?

Tell me if it every happens, and if so what from? How much of a thrill is it, how much of a mess? Can anyone tell?

It's happened to me while getting a really hot lap dance. She knew exactly what she was doing too.

oh it has happened to me many times..making out with a gf of mine and she would have me so excited from us making out and my cock would be so hard and throbbing against my briefs and jeans and before I knew it I would be cumming in my pants..it can be quite a mess in your pants alright....I have also cum with other females in my pants but not from making out..and have even cum like real quick too and I mean real quick

I came in my pants a few times during high school makeout dates. Extended makeout session, playing with her titties, I'd get so excited I just couldn't control it. No special movement or touching, I was just suddenly squirting into my shorts.

Orgasm feels awesome, with the warm cum filling your briefs. But makes a terrible mess, and your gf always knows what happened. The very first time it happened, my girlfriend asked me to show her. She'd never seen cum.

".....Your gf always knows what happened" I guess so, if you are down to your underwear... (nice picture). Was it your breathing that gave it away or was there so much warm sticky stuff that you couldn't hide it? Actually I don't think there's much shame in telling your gf that she has just made you come. It's a tribute to her attractiveness!

Other guys who have come in your pants... could anyone else tell, and if so how could they tell?

I think I've seen girls squeeze their thighs and come during lectures in college... but I'm not sure anyone around would know if they weren't being so obvious about facial expressions....

Girls, have you come in your pants, and can anyone tell?

Just reading the title of your post excited me. When it comes to the thought of a man blowing his load in his pants I get very aroused. It is the whole, "I'm so excited I can't stand it," loss of control thing.

I've never just had an orgasm without trying to. I mean, I've gotten really really horny where all it took was a few discreet rubs or rocking my legs together to come, but it has never been spontaneous.

I was once chatting on-line with a man who was at work. He really wanted me (what can I say? ) and I made a comment about a "one thrust fuck," maybe letting him slip it in me one time only- and he got suddenly quiet. Later he admitted it turned him on so much he came in his pants, at work, and had to run to the bathroom to clean up before it soaked through his slacks.

I still think of that when I masturbate because it turned me on SO much!

I don't think I can have an orgasm without jerking and moaning a little. And the breathing....and rhythm of the makeout session....would be affected. That's how they knew. They might have seen the wetness later, but it took time to soak through my shorts and pants.

I wasn't really ashamed about it. Maybe just a little embarrassed being a guy who couldn't control himself. It was actually kind of a turnon....especially when my date asked to see it. I was more than happy to let her look down into my shorts.

a j/o bud of mine and i were watching some porn and he came without even touching himself, fully dressed! was kinda hot

I never came without some sort of contact. It often happened during furtive mutual masturbation with both teen buddies and gfs - hands down each other's pants - when we didn't have enough privacy to get naked. Necking and dry humping with my gf has made me shoot my load a few times. Lap dancers have made me cum in my shorts and in my jeans (no underwear) several times, usually rubbing against her ass, tits or thigh. Once after bringing me to the brink rubbing against her ass, a dancer brought me off by rubbing her face and mouth against my crotch!

It is messy and can be embarrasing walking around with an big wet patch, but it sure is fun!

Oh how embarrassing, yeah right! Maybe a little sticky…but embarrassing? Not me, enjoy!!

Something like this happened to me one time. I'd been talking sex online with a girl for about half an hour. I was at the edge and my shorts were wet with precum, but I hadn't taken it out of my pants yet. She sent me an explicit, erotic picture....sex fetish art. I came in my pants as soon as I saw it. Only time that ever happened.

I like the feel of cumming in my pants. But I do it on purpose. If I get real horny, looking at porn with my pants on, I'll sometimes just rub my bulge and make it cum. Feeling warm cream fill your briefs is hot.

I did once, making out with a gf on a bus after a party back in college. Fortunately it was dark, I don't think she knew. Massive wet spot thru my briefs and pants but nobody noticed.

I've had this happen a few times, but not since high school or maybe early college. I could often use the tension of my boner against my jeans to get enough stimulation to cum during hot makeout sessions.

When I was in college and dating my future wife this happened a few of times.
The first time was when she had finally let me take her top off and play with her tits. I was so turned on when she reached down to feel me through my pants I immediately came. I had to make up some excuse because I was pretty embarrassed. I thought she didn't know what happened
A few months later we were dry humping in my car and I came in my pants. Again, an excuse that I had to go to the bathroom and went to clean myself.

Years later she told me she knew the times I came in my pants and thought it was neat.

This happened to me once in high school. I was really flirty with a girl in an art class one semester and she was very receptive. We shared all sorts of things by writing passing notes back and forth(fantasies, sexual experiences, masturbating habits, etc). One day we got bold and during some boring movie she allowed me to go under her shirt and play with and squeeze her nipples. Feeling her warm, full breasts and feeling her heavy breathing while I teased her nipples got me VERY hard. When she reached down I felt as if it were throbbing so much you could probably see it throbbing thru the heavy, baggy jeans I was wearing(it was winter). She barely touched it, barely got out the words"it's so hard" while whispering in my ear I shot sooo hard in my pants!! I was embarrased and once my cock started to shrink she asked"what's worng" I simply said I was scared we'd get caught and rushed off to the bathroom. We spent the rest of the semester continuing to pass notes.