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I have been suffering from this for a few years now. Sex or masturbation takes forever to reach a climax. Not on any medication, the experience is great but just can't get there easily.

I have tried waiting a few days but no difference.

Anyone else have this? Any treatments?

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Ken
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It takes me a long time to cum too. Always has...even as a teen.
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ludo184 said:
I have been suffering from this for a few years now. Sex or masturbation takes forever to reach a climax. Not on any medication, the experience is great but just can't get there easily.

I have tried waiting a few days but no difference.

Anyone else have this? Any treatments?

Cheers

Ken

I think it's a getting older thing. It often takes me a long time to cum too. But on occasion it builds quickly and naturally to ejaculation. It's partly mental - if I see something really hot then I may cum rapidly, but not always.

Does it vary, are there infrequent occasions when you can cum easily?
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Rarely can come quite quickly but no pattern I can see
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I've had the same problem recently,but I've just found a new way to wank.I've a good foreskin and always used it to rub my thumb on top back and forth over the penis ridge where the sensations are.but I've just remembered my first wank,as I pinched my foreskin back and forth over the head of my penis.I had 2wanks yesterday and 1 this morning,and previously thought I'd lost it.try something different.
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Turned 60 this year and im on bp meds. It has slowed down my ability to cum quickly but i can still get off in a few minutes. Other times it takes some heavy stroking for 5 or 10 minutes. I dont get hard as easily for sure but im still rock solid. I can jo 2 or 3 times a day so i guess im good.
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When I was first married I always worried about the opposite - cumming too soon. Normally I was okay, but I was in the military and away from home a lot. The excitement of being home for the first time for many months always caused me to cum far too quickly.
I read in a magazine that if you rub something called Anethaine cream around the base of the head of your cock, it desensitizes it somewhat so you can last much longer.
Anethaine is a simple local anesthetic cream available over the counter, so the next time I was returning home after about 5 months away I bought some and applied it on the journey home.
Well it worked! It took a lot of the sensitivity away, but I was able to last for ages, and the ultimate ejaculation felt very normal. My wife couldn't believe what was happening, but I did come clean and tell her a few days later.
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I use Orajel at the point where I switch from dry stroking to lube mode. It really helps to curtail the sensitivity until I reach gooning stage. Wife asked me once why I keep buying it so I told her. Now she knows why I last all night too.cockpussystrokeeyeshot

To the OP, try using a wand vibrator. One minute on the sweet spot and I'm leaking like mad and ready to go...

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When I was first married I always worried about the opposite - cumming too soon. Normally I was okay, but I was in the military and away from home a lot. The excitement of being home for the first time for many months always caused me to cum far too quickly.
I read in a magazine that if you rub something called Anethaine cream around the base of the head of your cock, it desensitizes it somewhat so you can last much longer.
Anethaine is a simple local anesthetic cream available over the counter, so the next time I was returning home after about 5 months away I bought some and applied it on the journey home.
Well it worked! It took a lot of the sensitivity away, but I was able to last for ages, and the ultimate ejaculation felt very normal. My wife couldn't believe what was happening, but I did come clean and tell her a few days later.
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Reminds me of a hilarious episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm. Larry got these special condoms that had an anesthetic lubricant. When he tried it, it didn't really work, but his wife, Cheryl, got a numb vagina. Larry had put it on backwards.
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Holy crap! I am at the other end of the spectrum!! If I use a vibrator, I can cum before I get fully erect!


Not that I'm proud of that, or anything. LOL
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I find that if I have a lot on my mind it can take longer to cum. Finding some very hot porn can help me clear my mind and get excited enough to orgasm.
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I've had radiation treatment for prostate cancer, as a result I can't ejaculate. I can stroke my cock for an hour or more before I have an orgasm. Not much fun when you need to cum. Very enjoyable when you just want to lay back and enjoy the pleasure of slow-stroking.


You just have to adjust to things.
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When I was a kid I could reach orgasm in about 2 minutes. Now in my 60s, it takes anywhere from 10 minutes to 2 hrs or more. I have to say, I much prefer the long road to orgasm, as there is so much more pleasure to be had along the way.
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