I have been suffering from this for a few years now. Sex or masturbation takes forever to reach a climax. Not on any medication, the experience is great but just can't get there easily.
I have tried waiting a few days but no difference.
Anyone else have this? Any treatments?
Cheers
Ken
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It takes me a long time to cum too. Always has...even as a teen.
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ludo184 said:
I have been suffering from this for a few years now. Sex or masturbation takes forever to reach a climax. Not on any medication, the experience is great but just can't get there easily.
I have tried waiting a few days but no difference.
Anyone else have this? Any treatments?
Cheers
Ken
I have been suffering from this for a few years now. Sex or masturbation takes forever to reach a climax. Not on any medication, the experience is great but just can't get there easily.
I have tried waiting a few days but no difference.
Anyone else have this? Any treatments?
Cheers
Ken
I think it's a getting older thing. It often takes me a long time to cum too. But on occasion it builds quickly and naturally to ejaculation. It's partly mental - if I see something really hot then I may cum rapidly, but not always.
Does it vary, are there infrequent occasions when you can cum easily?
Rarely can come quite quickly but no pattern I can see
I've had the same problem recently,but I've just found a new way to wank.I've a good foreskin and always used it to rub my thumb on top back and forth over the penis ridge where the sensations are.but I've just remembered my first wank,as I pinched my foreskin back and forth over the head of my penis.I had 2wanks yesterday and 1 this morning,and previously thought I'd lost it.try something different.
Turned 60 this year and im on bp meds. It has slowed down my ability to cum quickly but i can still get off in a few minutes. Other times it takes some heavy stroking for 5 or 10 minutes. I dont get hard as easily for sure but im still rock solid. I can jo 2 or 3 times a day so i guess im good.
When I was first married I always worried about the opposite - cumming too soon. Normally I was okay, but I was in the military and away from home a lot. The excitement of being home for the first time for many months always caused me to cum far too quickly.
I read in a magazine that if you rub something called Anethaine cream around the base of the head of your cock, it desensitizes it somewhat so you can last much longer.
Anethaine is a simple local anesthetic cream available over the counter, so the next time I was returning home after about 5 months away I bought some and applied it on the journey home.
Well it worked! It took a lot of the sensitivity away, but I was able to last for ages, and the ultimate ejaculation felt very normal. My wife couldn't believe what was happening, but I did come clean and tell her a few days later.
I read in a magazine that if you rub something called Anethaine cream around the base of the head of your cock, it desensitizes it somewhat so you can last much longer.
Anethaine is a simple local anesthetic cream available over the counter, so the next time I was returning home after about 5 months away I bought some and applied it on the journey home.
Well it worked! It took a lot of the sensitivity away, but I was able to last for ages, and the ultimate ejaculation felt very normal. My wife couldn't believe what was happening, but I did come clean and tell her a few days later.
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I use Orajel at the point where I switch from dry stroking to lube mode. It really helps to curtail the sensitivity until I reach gooning stage. Wife asked me once why I keep buying it so I told her. Now she knows why I last all night too.
To the OP, try using a wand vibrator. One minute on the sweet spot and I'm leaking like mad and ready to go...
To the OP, try using a wand vibrator. One minute on the sweet spot and I'm leaking like mad and ready to go...
Baggsy2010 said:
When I was first married I always worried about the opposite - cumming too soon. Normally I was okay, but I was in the military and away from home a lot. The excitement of being home for the first time for many months always caused me to cum far too quickly.
I read in a magazine that if you rub something called Anethaine cream around the base of the head of your cock, it desensitizes it somewhat so you can last much longer.
Anethaine is a simple local anesthetic cream available over the counter, so the next time I was returning home after about 5 months away I bought some and applied it on the journey home.
Well it worked! It took a lot of the sensitivity away, but I was able to last for ages, and the ultimate ejaculation felt very normal. My wife couldn't believe what was happening, but I did come clean and tell her a few days later.
When I was first married I always worried about the opposite - cumming too soon. Normally I was okay, but I was in the military and away from home a lot. The excitement of being home for the first time for many months always caused me to cum far too quickly.
I read in a magazine that if you rub something called Anethaine cream around the base of the head of your cock, it desensitizes it somewhat so you can last much longer.
Anethaine is a simple local anesthetic cream available over the counter, so the next time I was returning home after about 5 months away I bought some and applied it on the journey home.
Well it worked! It took a lot of the sensitivity away, but I was able to last for ages, and the ultimate ejaculation felt very normal. My wife couldn't believe what was happening, but I did come clean and tell her a few days later.
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Reminds me of a hilarious episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm. Larry got these special condoms that had an anesthetic lubricant. When he tried it, it didn't really work, but his wife, Cheryl, got a numb vagina. Larry had put it on backwards.
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Holy crap! I am at the other end of the spectrum!! If I use a vibrator, I can cum before I get fully erect!
Not that I'm proud of that, or anything. LOL
Not that I'm proud of that, or anything. LOL
I find that if I have a lot on my mind it can take longer to cum. Finding some very hot porn can help me clear my mind and get excited enough to orgasm.
I've had radiation treatment for prostate cancer, as a result I can't ejaculate. I can stroke my cock for an hour or more before I have an orgasm. Not much fun when you need to cum. Very enjoyable when you just want to lay back and enjoy the pleasure of slow-stroking.
You just have to adjust to things.
You just have to adjust to things.
When I was a kid I could reach orgasm in about 2 minutes. Now in my 60s, it takes anywhere from 10 minutes to 2 hrs or more. I have to say, I much prefer the long road to orgasm, as there is so much more pleasure to be had along the way.
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