When do you find the time to stroke? Especially those with families still at home. How often do you get to play online, chat etc? How many of you have regular buds, online or in person? Would love to find another married guy with similar interests to chat with or just talk about masturbation. Free time is hard to come by, but can communicate via email or KIK on pretty regular basis. Contact info in my profile if interested.

My wife completely ignores me sexually, so I go back to my bedroom and jerk off anytime I want. She isn't interested in helping me, so I take matters in my own hand.

I'm sorry for you.my wife gave up sex 10 years ago but she still gives me handjobs.I don't know what your marriage is like,but I would try to fix it.

62 curious mwm in us. I get lucky most of the time. My wife works days and i work mid shift. I have weekday mornings alone for my masturbation pleasure. Thats when i chat, look at porn and sometimes cam or phone. Sadly she is a teacher and school is about to be out for the next few months. If i jack at all during that time its when she leaves the house but its usually just a quicky.

I cam and chat when I get the chance while she is out or sleeping. I masturbate to porn and cam as much as I can.

At 47, that is a disgrace. I pity you, sir.

WannaBigger1, if your wife is your age or near your age she seems young to no longer need or care for sex. Hope you guys can work through it!

She is 45.

We've been to counseling, marriage retreats, etc. Nothing helps. I've even offered to let her fuck other men if she doesn't want me, but she says she doesn't want sex with anyone.

Kid is 20 so I know her schedule and I get home from work before the wife gets home. Not hard for me to find time to jerk off.

With my ex-wife it was never a problem to find the time. She was fine with me jacking off while looking at porn magazines, watching porn videos, having phone sex or whatever. She usually loved joining me or watching me and kissing on me while I did my thing. Our sex life was great despite her having a condition which most of the time made vaginal penetration painful for her, but clitoral stimulation and masturbation was usually great for her and she was still very sexually adventurous and inventive and she loved sucking my cock a lot. She knew and understood my love for masturbation, porn and phone sex and it was also her idea to talk with women we knew personally to find a few who would be into phone sex with me in order to not spend do much on paid phone sex lines, which did happen. She would come home and I would be on the phone jacking off with one of her friends or one of my friends and she would ask who I was talking to and have me tell them hello for her or say she wanted to talk with them after we got done.
She had even given me permission to meet with women we knew to masturbate with in person as long as I didn't put my dick in them, she was okay with it. I almost did that a couple of times. Had set up with a couple of different friends a time to masturbate together, but I decided not to put that much temptation in front of myself. I don't cheat and I don't think I would have in that situation but decided not to tempt fate.
We never had kids, so I wasn't limited to the bedroom or during school hours, etc. I could jack off anytime I wanted to anywhere in the house with her there or not.

Most girls I have dated and lived with have known and respected my space and gave me time to masturbate and most would join me or watch me.
A couple of girls I was with who had kids would go fix breakfast in the mornings and get the kids into the kitchen to give me time to jack off once or twice. or they would take them out to do something to give me a little me time.
I haven't had a live in girlfriend in a long time, but the ones I have been in relationships with are fine with me masturbating in front of them even while watching porn, looking at magazines, having phone sex or with webcam girls. Most are even fine with me continuing having phone sex, sexting and webcamming with my personal female friends as long as I am not fucking them in real life.
Currently, I am not in a relationship, but I have quite a few women I masturbate with in person or while sexting, camming or having phone sex. Not actuaally having sex with anyone right now by choice as I prefer to keep that within a committed relationship, although I have done the friends with benefits thing a few times and don't totally rule it out with the right person, but having female friends you can openly masturbate with is a very nice thing.

My masturbation habits tend to be up in the air. Being married and having young kids does not leave me with alot of free time.

My saving grace is that I work in retail and my days off will always fall on a weekday. Wife works part time and both my kids are finally at school, so for two days a week I have around 3 to 5 hours to enjoy a good wank.

The other work around I have is late night wanks, these are a bit more risky, but with the living room being downstairs and a walk from the stairs, if anyone stirs I have the time to put away my cock and grab the Xbox controller instead.

I have a couple of irregular chat buddies on Skype, we are never always on at the same time but it's good to catch up on occasions.

Sex with wife is good but nowhere near as regular, can go a month or two without sex followed by a month of twice to three times a week!!!! Oddly enough I still wank even with sex emptying my balls.

Like a few other guys here, my partner works a 9-5 and I work nights. Once she's up and out in the morning I'm free to slap my manhood for a while.

It's not odd. We've all wanked *several thousand* times before we get to empty our balls in a gf/wife who lets us.
Wife doesn't work from home, but I do So there's plenty of time now, less when young kids were in the picture.
I've masturbated during weeks when we had sex a lot, and many (more) when there was none. Wanking is mostly what we men do.

Seems I'm not alone my wife ( 57 ) has gone off sex totally I don't even get a wank off her never mind anything else. But as I work away all week that gives me 4 nights to wank away to my hearts content. Jackinmad on kik

I wish my hubby let me get him off daily. I think he feels obligated to make me cum though and he seems to prefer handling it himself. I really do love getting him off though. My favorite is when he gets out of the shower and comes up to me while I am sitting on the couch and shoves his hard cock down my throat and fucks my mouth until he either cums or decides he wants another one of my holes.

I love edging him too. Really really wish he let me do it more. He has been in a shit mood lately and secluded. We have had a lot going on the past month so I can understand that.

However, I would love to please him daily or assist him. I get jealous of the things he does alone because I enjoy it so much lol I guess I am a freak of nature.

It is an altogether different story when he has his kid though. I couldn't be more turned off on those days. I dislike everything about that but it makes him happy to have thst time and thats all that matters.

I couldn't imaging having kids full time. I'd probably shoot myself.