It has recently dawned on me that although I have regular sex with my wife, its possible that Im not as satisfied because I never finish inside. We dont use protection and I always pull out.

I mean, sex is good and cumming is good. But I wonder if cumming inside is actually an essential part of it; filling a pussy with cum vs just blowing outside. And not just for me but for her also.

Are we missing something or are there bigger fish to fry?!

I like both BUT prefer to cum inside her pussy. Mist of the time we build and cum together. Slamming your hard cock inside of a wet pussy then cumming inside and feeling that extra "lubricant" and hearing that squishy smacking sound is a great feeling to me. Then after pulling out watch it flow down out of her sweet cunt down the crack of her ass. yum ! The feeling of her tight cunt milking your dixk as it cums makes me cum the hardest.

Interesting/good question. When I was younger, I could NEVER imagine NOT cumming inside her. The epitome of sex.
Now, after "been there, done that" sex life after 30+ years of marriage, I rarely cum inside of her. For a couple reasons. One, she doesn't like my man-lotion oozing out and messing up her undies while at work or whatever. Two, I really enjoy watching her talented hand work my cock over and enjoying the ejaculation. We both enjoy watching.

When younger, there was a lot of passion, and we actually "made love" and cumming inside was a integral part of making love.
Then, during pro-creative sex, cumming inside was mandatory, but we were still 'making love' and cumming inside was important.

For you, it's possibly the grass is always greener on the other side.
So, I guess I really don't have an answer for you...
How does she feel about it? Does she climax during sex? Does she desire to have you cum inside of her?

why did you get married.sex is different from masturbation.I loved having sex with my wife,but I still masturbated.get help.

two entirely different sensations.

It is quite different and I need both. So we have sex all the way, then sometimes she will masturbate me or watch me or let me hump her thigh. I also never quit jerking off by myself. BUT, cumming inside gives such a feeling of complicity, of fulfillment, it will always be my no 1 choice

I have the same issue with my wife. She hates cum and is disgusted by it, so she won't let me cum inside her. Haven't shot inside my wife in over 15 years. Typically we finish sex by masturbating. She uses her vibrator and I jerk off watching her cum over and over.

With an oversized helmet that is bigger and wider than the stem, I find I 'rake out' a lot of my own cum ... especially if I can find a way to 'keep pumping' even after my ejaculations end.

I fucking love getting it all over.

Early into our marriage, I could go 2-3 times, so I was giving myself 'sloppy seconds' over several hours, even if we 'took a break.' So I have fantasies of sharing ladies, and going second (or even third) and just 'raking out' other stud's loads.

I even like the fantasy of 'pulling out' after a few pumps and letting her (or other ladies) 'taste' the studs that have filled them, or their female partners (if bi-sexual).

My first wife decided she didnt want me to cum in her. I would pull out just before orgasm and press my cock on her mound and finish with one or two thrusts, cumming on her stomach. It interrupted my orgasm. And when cumming inside, i always enjoyed thrusting through the orgasm, nd continuing to thrust afterwards, working my orgasm off, cock feeling very sensitive. Cumming outside, once done ejaculating, i missed the intense feelings of my sensitive cock engulfed in her and my cum.

We both find cumming on her is very erotic and where I cum the majority of times.

Inside, always

i fill my wife with my cum nearly every time. Like the power of blasting inside her, she loves the feeling n I love seeing it ooze out

I have always preferred cumming inside.

For me it feels like instinct, that I want to pump my seed as deep into her cunt/mouth/ass as possible! My hips just want to thrust into the hilt and keep it there as I cum.

And if I am receiving a cock I want it to pump its cum deep into me as well.

Having said all that, when jerking off I like to see it spurt out of my cock.

Cumming outside is for pornos. Cummins inside is pleasurable for both parties!

Sex with my wife usually ends in the missionary position with her legs up against my shoulders. A good 97% of the time we climax simultaneously where the build up from one of us pulls the other person along too. Hence, me pulling out would kind of ruin her orgasm. On some of those occassions where she cums first and I don't, I'll later pull out and shoot my load over her pussy or on her stomach.