Had two similar situation as you. I chatted with each of the guys on line, then we met at a fast food location and decided to get together later that day. One guy (2004) was a former cop and with him I rented a hotel room and he came by. That was a hot jerking session that I still jerk off thinking about. The other experience (2005) was one wherein I went to the guy's apartment. That experience wasn't as hot and the guy's dog chewed up my sandals. It's been over a year since I've made a connection. Not sure if/when I would do it again. Oh, I was chatting with a third dude, but my instincts alerted me to avoid him. He hounded me for a while trying to get me to invite him to my house. His agressive behavior was a turn off.

Not quite there to eat my own.

I have masturbated on a bus and airplane, very quietly.