| From: Closed Thread by Linda Roger said: Rod, you and Ben can run the board on any ad hoc basis you want to. No one is questionoing your authority. BTW, "ad hoc" is the very point. There's not a word in the JC TOS, or in the title or description of the female forum, that indicates any special restrictions on content or participation there, compared with the general male forum. So I think this is indeed a matter of the mods making it up as they go along, to conform to their personal likes and dislikes, and an attitude toward gender issues that's at least a couple of decades out of date, IMHO. |
| From: Closed Thread by Linda Roger said: If there are actually any women around here for you to protect, perhaps they'd care to comment.... I posted quite a bit on this website a few years ago, but have only lurked here recently. However, I’d like to comment. I agree that the decision to close the thread for being “not appropriate” was obviously sexist, and Rod’s attempt to justify Ben’s action was weakened by his own admission that it was about turning away “unsolicited come-ons” from males in the female forum. He compounded his error by suggesting that females can go to other areas of the board if they’re “so inclined.” Are you guys really that clueless about today’s females, and the idea that men and women are to be treated equally these days? This isn't your daddy's America anymore. Rod seems to suggest that the more aggressively sexual females can go elsewhere on the board, while the male protective types want to maintain some sort of safe zone for the more demure among us. Well my two cents is that I can handle the “come-ons” just fine thank you, and would tell you that your macho male protective attitude, however well intentioned, is unwelcome and offensive. |
| From: Gender imbalance by Linda I post from time to time, usually in the female forum. There are a few of us. But there aren't a lot of ladies posting here for sure. |
| From: How many women enjoy tribbing? by Linda your_goddess said: ...................... For me, I get hot as hell knowing it makes my partner hard just to get me off, whether I touch him or not. Which, naturally, makes me far more enthusiastic when I go to reciprocate. That's so very true Goddess. I've often felt the same way. I need lots of oral or manual stimulation of my clitoris and inner lips to get me off. It's so exciting to see my man's throbbing erection while he's working to bring me off this way, but receiving no direct stimulation himself. And I've talked to a friend of mine about this who says she's disappointed that her husband doesn't respond strongly this way. He works at satisfying her, but she says he seldom has a rigid erection while he's doing it.....until directly stimulated himself. Individual differences of course, but one thing is certain. When he's not wearing pants, a man has no way of disguising the state of his sexual arousal.  |
| From: How many women enjoy tribbing? by Linda FireFly said: Oh my gawd, it's really nice! Pretty special to feel someone you love that way... grinding your's into her's. It's pretty hard to do but if you get things just right you can feel your clittys rolling n slipping off eachother and that's just so totally amazing feeling! That's a great description FireFly. The scissors is really wonderful, especially when you can get your clittys kissing like that. Helps when both partners have prominent erections. |
| From: Aiming to please... by Linda your_goddess said: Right. So. I'm not the Queen of Tact here, so please bear with me because I'm about to bruise an ego or two or three. I know that we've pointed out a few favorites here, but don't come seeking our approval. That negates the whole confidence thing and that is totally NOT sexy. It's insecure. Be proud of your penises for what they are, not because we think they're nice. You shouldn't need to seek our approval. And, yes, they're both very nice penises, by the bye. And I respect the other ladies all the more for not responding. It shows you are more tactful than I and truly are caring people. And I, myself, would probably be less bold if I'd had fewer shots of Tequilla. Well said Goddess. I refrained from commenting because it was your point to make. Your first post emphasized that sexy guys have self condidence which is reflected in the profile pics here. And that shouldn't require our approval for validation. |
| From: Aiming to please... by Linda your_goddess said: You know what I love about the profile pictures? All the men seem so CONFIDENT in their equipment. No matter the size, shape, appearance, each one is standing out proudly for us all to see and admire. Confidence is sexy as hell. Be proud of your penises, men! Me, I get quite turned on by some of the profile pictures here. I agree whole-heartedly with you ladies: I just want to USE them! I can fantasize all day about what some of those penises pictured could do to me, with me, and what I could do to them! I just had to enter FireFly's thread again to say how much I agreed with the point of your post Goddess. Confidence is indeed as sexy as hell. And I'm impressed by how confidently and proudly a man in the bedroom almost always displays his erect penis to his lover. You're right Goddess, a hugely important aspect of the penis pics on Jackinchat is how proudly they're being displayed by their owners. |
| From: Aiming to please... by Linda Enjoyed your comments FireFly. I wonder if guys realize that their male endowments are sometimes discussed by women. At least in college, my girlfriends and I quite often talked about new boyfriends. And we talked about more than their manners and how they dressed. We also talked about how they looked undressed....LOL. |
| From: Aiming to please... by Linda Enjoyed your post FireFly. Nice to see you here again. |
| From: whats your fav size by Linda Really big ones can be arousing in the porn vids, but they can hurt in the bedroom....and also limit the possibilities of oral sex. |
| From: Toys in your underwear in public by Linda I've sometimes had a vibrating egg in me when we go out. Hubby has the remote control. |
| From: Are any women by Linda I should have posted on this thread earlier. Add me to the list of (heavy)-breathing masturbating females here. In my teens, I was probably masturbating like a young boy. (In frequency....not technique....LOL.) And I never lost the habit. |
| From: Orgasm while breastfeeding by Linda RuggerBugger said: To be blunt, if you're going to ask questions about a sexual situation involving the presence of an infant, you need to be fucking clear about exactly what you mean and why you're asking. I respect your feelings and opinion. But the problem is not in the way the issue was raised, it was in the way YOU thought about it. A question involving a mother's physical response to nursing is in no way, to use your words, "a sexual situation involving the presence of an infant." The very point is that it is in fact NOT a sexual situation. There have been lots of posts on several threads here about guys being aroused by their wife's lactating breasts, and her response during lovemaking while lactating. But I can't see how this is in any way improper. |
| From: Orgasm while breastfeeding by Linda RuggerBugger said: I think the fact that you even thought about this is worrying. This attitude is probably why nursing mothers don't talk much about it. I've read that as many as 40% of mothers feel arousal at one time or another during nursing. This is related to the production of the hormone oxytocin when the breast is stimulated. When nursing, this hormone production causes ejection of milk from the nipples. The same hormone is related to arousal and orgasm during sex. So it seems to be a natural phenomenon. I don't understand why it would seem "worrying" that a guy might ask a question about it. |
| From: Female squirting by Linda Hardrocker said: just my 2 cents. Ive enjoyed all the posts on this interesting and provocative thread. lots of posts and lots of views. I hope the thread stays open and active. I agree. It's unusual to have this much activity in the Female Forum. I've appreciated all the posts here, pro and con. Not a downer for me. I've enjoyed it too Hardrocker. |
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