Me on top or from behind

I'm hoping it won't affect the friendship. We've done other stuff. We just haven't had full sex. That doesn't seem to have affected the friendship at all...
I guess it's simply a fear of having sex... I keep trying to think of excuses why we shouldn't do it, which is just stupid.

I agree that sex with someone I know and trust is better than with a complete stranger. At least I know I'll be safe.

Thanks for the advice...

I seem to be able to figure out the people I can trust.

I've personally met several people online who have been totally fine to interact with, and I've met up with several of them in person.
I wouldn't meet up with the ones I felt I didn't trust. I feel that I am a good judge of character...

I've met some real questionable people on the net, but I've also made some good friends. I guess you just have to be careful...

A few months ago, I hooked up with a guy, after exchanging naughty text messages and the like, and we fooled around a bit.
Unfortunately for my feelings, we have become really good friends in the process...
I'm still a virgin, and it hangs over me like a disease. He is totally aware of this, and has offered to sleep with me, so I can gain some experience with someone who is safe, and someone I can trust.

I'm concerned about how it'll affect the friendship, and wondered if anyone else has ever been in a similar situation?

The way I see it, if you want to receive, you have to give.

I gave head for the first time only a couple of weeks ago, and I loved it. Perhaps too much.
I wouldn't be impressed if one was thrust into my face, but I do like to be told to do it.

I've partaken in mutual masturbation with a friend...