When I was younger, wives, lovers, and casual partners, as well as bI and gay buddies, were more available and accessible. These days, when those urges hit, my faithful right hand helps me enjoy the memories jacking runs in 3-D on the IMAC screen in my head.

I was eleven. My erection scared me. I tried to massage out the stiffness. my ejaculation was unexpected and delightful. So delightful I figured out how to make it happen. Now my favorite pastime!

At eleven, the boy next door and I began getting together in my basement to get naked together. I always got a boner, though he didn't. I got self-conscious about it sticking out like that and tried to make it go down by pulling the skin over the corona and squeezing it. This caused me to ejaculate and I got into the habit. Until I hit college, anytime I was naked with a guy, I got hard. Really embarrassing skinnydipping in Scouts or showering after high school gym.

When I was younger, I flipped my legs up over my shoulders, rolling up onto my shoulders so most of my weight was on my shoulders. That put my cock right over my mouth, and I could get the tip in far enough to blow myself. My bi guy friends sometimes leaned on my butt to help me get more of it inside.

I agree with side-by-side being the most natural. The teen boys I started with when I was a teen and who had no prior experience, either, instinctively chose side-by-side as a way to maintain greater control over depth, rate, and other variables. Only after more experience and familiarity did such matters as ease of anilinctus become a factor.

[u][/u]Have you fucked your wife or girlfriend in the ass? yes

Did you use a condom or not? no

Did you cum inside her? yes

Did she like it and want to do it more? yes

Was she tight? yes

What lube did you use? her pussy juice. We were spooning, and I went into the wrong hole.

Did you like it? yes

Was it better than her pussy? no, her pussy was slicker and more responsive.

There is a lot to be said for the progressive method, but what worked best for me was to use a cucumber fatter than the dick I wanted to be able to take. This got me over being worried and tense, and the relaxation made all the difference. As you push it in, bear down like you were trying to poop. That relaxes the sphincter and it'll slide in easy.