It's still a good way to start a conversation, isn't it? If you reply, do they give you more information subsequently? I've started a conversation like that before, usually because I'm not totally sure I've typed the name in correctly, or maybe you didn't type it correctly, or whatever.

I guess my main question is: if you reply to a 'hi' does a conversation start, or not?

I'm in a similar boat, I think my wife and I have had sex maybe twice in the last year. I've told her I jack off, but she's not all that interested. Guys are different than girls, lots of women don't really need sex, but guys really need it.

My wife was reading a book once that included the notion that a happy home includes a guy with empty balls. It went on to ask: 'does that mean I have to have sex with him all the time? No, but he needs to have an outlet." She shared this with me and maybe it was her way of saying that she doesn't mind me masturbating, because she sure hasn't done anything to help ;-)

I love to be naked and do sexy things outdoors. I've jacked off outside as far back as I can remember. My wife took me to my first nude beach (at least where there were other people nude) and she got so excited that she dragged me into the bushes away from the people and begged me to fuck her. It didn't take any begging, that's for sure.

I also love to go outside in the evenings, at least in the summertime, to sit naked on the patio. I'm never sure if anyone can see, probably not, but it's really exciting and I always jack off at some point.

Good luck with your search. I was in a similar position, almost got together with a guy, but we both chickened out in the end. I'd still love to try it out, but I'm really nervous of the whole thing, too. Thinking about jacking another cock, and maybe sucking it, makes me quite excited, though.

Again, good luck!

Yeah, this is a hot topic. I wish I had a bro to do things/experiment with. Makes me hard to think about it.

I'm about the furthest thing from a narcissist, but I was looking through some pics I took about a year and a half ago on a hiking trip I took and got so horny I had to jerk off.

It was a beautiful day so I stripped down and did most of the hike in the nude, and in the middle I found a nice place to hang out and have my lunch. Around that time I was trading pics with a woman I met on Second Life, so I snapped a couple to show her. She enjoyed them and sent me some of herself 'enjoying' them :-)

I recently found them again, and looking through them made me so excited I just had to take my cock out and stroke it. Anyone else ever done that with their own pics?

http://min.us/msb6Qiks9G9Fb

Thanks for posting. I had a girlfriend who had nipples like that, I loved them. Pale skin and pink puffy nipples

I've done it several times, and it's quite exciting. I love seeing a good closeup of my cock while I stroke it, and watching the cum shoot out as I orgasm. It's funny, but the warm stuff shooting on my face and tongue is actually quite exciting. I usually lose my interest in swallowing as soon as I cum, so I spit it out, but it's still quite exciting. So far I've missed my eyes, but I hear that's pretty uncomfortable. I wanna do it again now :-)

When I was much younger, before the internet and chat rooms etc, I was on the phone with a girl I worked with, and we were in one of those loops where we were daring the other to hang up, and so neither of us did. We ended up watching the same tv shows all evening and talking about them as though we were in the same room.

Finally it was getting late so I started looking around the channels to find something that would make her hang up and found some soft-core porn. I was amazed that she switched to it, too, and we watched it and talked about it in a round-about way. The show made me excited, and I got naked and started stroking without saying anything to her, as I would have done anyway watching it. It was pretty exciting stroking while talking to her, her not knowing what I was doing, but after a while I noticed that her breathing was coming a bit quicker, too. After a bit I could tell she was masturbating; she was making little mewling sounds, and she was breathless when she talked, so I made some sounds so that she would know I was doing it, too. Neither of us mentioned it, but it made me so excited I had a lot of trouble not cumming right away, but I wanted to drag it out a bit.

After a while, when there was a particularly hot sex scene, she gave a few subtle little 'oh's and I knew she was cumming, which pushed me over the top, too, and I came in buckets. We were both quiet for a while, catching our breaths, and a few minutes later she said: "I guess you win, I'm going to bed," so we said our goodbyes and hung up.

We never did do it again like that, although we did chat on the phone quite a bit. I would sometimes stroke while we talked, remembering that time, but I don't think she did, although I think she wanted to. I remember at least one other time when she called me around the time that our movie had been on and she said 'I wonder if there's porn on again', but it never happened that there was, and we were both too shy to bring the conversation to the topic in a meaningful way. Too bad. It was sure exciting and unexpected that one time, though, and thinking about it still makes me masturbate.

Same as most of the previous posters, I'm not at all attracted to guys, but I do think about what it might be like to stroke and even suck another cock. I was never grossed out by the thought of 2 guys together as some of my friends seemed to be, but also wasn't very excited by it. When I was in my 20's I had 2 guys make passes at me, but I really wasn't interested. I'm hugely attracted to women and love most things about them.

Over the past several years, though, my thoughts have changed a bit. When I watch porn I used to fast-forward through the cock sucking parts, now I watch them. Watching gay porn never did anything for me, but now I quite enjoy it. It's not about the guys, though, it's just the cocks. I wonder how those cocks would feel in my hands, in my mouth, and yes even in my ass.

I was on a short trip with a friend a few days ago and we shared a hotel room. There were a couple of other friends with us who shared another room, but the guy I was with kept making sexual jokes about the room sharing. It was turning me on. I'm not sure how to approach it, but if he makes a move on another trip I'll probably encourage it. I went along with the jokes and made a few of my own, maybe I'll keep that going next time.

I've also thought about going to a men's steam room like another poster mentioned. There's one in town that I keep thinking about, and I get all excited thinking about going there. I'd love to be in a darkened room full of naked guys. Sounds great! Next time the gf is out of town...

That's seriously hot! Thanks for sharing, and I hope there have been more since then

I've cum in my mouth several times before, but, as with the posters above, I always lose the urge after I've cum. Thinking about it never ceases to excite me, though. One day I'll swallow it. Maybe the next time

I remember the first time I did that. I was about 11 or 12 and was babysitting the kid across the road. After he went to bed I found that he had an almost life-sized stuffed something-or-other. I took off all my clothes and lay on top of it like it was a person and hunched against it. It was great. When I knew I was going to cum I got some tissues to lay on it and went back to fucking, but when I did cum I shot so forcefully and so much the tissue didn't catch it all, and I spent quite some time afterwards trying to get it all out of the fur.

Every time I went back there to babysit I'd just see the slightly matted fur on it's tummy and I'd get an erection. I enjoyed that thing many more times :-)