Fever - Madonna (Girlie Show Live)

One missed opportunity comes to mind, dating back to when I was an inexperienced 19-year-old. Over the course of four years at college, a soft-spoken, handsome young Black man would engage me in conversation every time he saw me at various places around campus, and he'd find excuses to touch my arm and my back while we talked. My poor 19-year-old brain didn't register that it's actually a good thing to have a sane admirer with a mellow personality.

My 60-year-old self would point out to myself at ages 19-through-22 that at least one date with that young admirer might help with the need for sex and intimacy -- I mean, hello?!

A guy with a "man bun". I have no explanation or defense for this, it's just a sexy thing.

For those who enjoy male/male talent, in no particular order:

Dale Cooper (my favorite)
Matt Ramsey (aka Peter North)
Dean Flynn
JImmy Clay (aka Jimmy Coxxx)
Curtis (for Sean Cody)
Griffin Barrows
Travis (for Corbin Fisher)
Elder Hardt
Bill Henson (starts 35:23)
Justin Owen

I seem to have one or two recurring "types".

I don't know how you feel about using toys, but they can really add to your experience.

I often use a cock ring like this one to stay hard longer: Phanxy Dual Penis Ring

A 66-year-old straight friend of mine has ED symptoms, and I introduced him to using an anal vibrator -- by describing it to him, not by demonstrating it -- and now he is really happy to have the extra stimulation and enhanced orgasm. He uses his vibe when he jacks off and when he plays with his girlfriend. He didn't like the idea of using a device that literally looked like a dick -- but his girlfriend helped him choose this smaller, less phallic-looking vibe, which he finds perfect:
Aneros Helix Syn

Some straight guys think that playing with their prostate sounds "too gay", but others are glad to discover that they actually have a male G-spot in their ass. It's a good idea to clean your butt before playing with a vibe:
How To Properly Clean Your Ass

One of my most memorable Dr. visits was when I got the norovirus in 2012. Unexpectedly, my Dr. asked if she could have a med student examine me, and I said OK.

The young male intern was at least as handsome as the guy in this photo. I was miserable and weak, and it would have felt weird if he'd done anything really sexual -- but he gave me a pleasant surprise by spontaneously delivering a warm, extended upper-body hug right in the middle of checking my heart and breath sounds.

I'm sure it was against the rules, but I certainly had no objections. There was something really beautiful about a handsome young stranger daring to embrace me while I was still potentially contagious. I remember he had an enigmatic smile, and the two of us barely spoke during his brief exam.

Not gloating, but I last got laid about 6 weeks ago and it was fun and rejuvenating. Jesus men, we've got to figure out how to get you some conjugal and/or illicit relations stat!

Beckham, and I'll work on the rest of him. His butt too!

Tyler Hoechlin

Couldn't find a "delete" button, so this'll suffice.

OK, some common sense applies: Make sure he's interested before you show or try anything.

Very nice. As a fine young man once said to me (as I nutted on his ass): You must have needed that

Yeah, play with a nipple, or something like this here: