Those torsos that they sell with an ass and pussy would be a more natural pussy feel as you can use it in a "missionary" position and get the full effect as you thrust really hard.
I have never had anything electrical as I tend to play for an hour or 2 - so the charge may not last - but there are many options.

get a fleshlight and def something safe for the ass, that combination should give you an intense orgasm

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That ice cream sounds good, what flavor for Christmas?

Happy

Where is the holiday and what are the dates, just asking....

I do not mean to oversimplify the situation or ignore your feelings, but these labels do no good for you, they only conjure up stereotypical images, images you probably do not relate to. Just ignore the prefix, no need for hetero, bi, or homo - you are just sexual. Experience what you desire and let nature take its course. Btw, at our age, most of us are stroking, good luck and enjoy.

I enjoy everything about frotting, but my go to position is on top thrusting and waiting for my partner to shoot. The feeling of thrusting against his cum covered body and cock - sets me off (too) quickly.

It is a tall order, but it can happen.
As individuals we have some basic, common interest, but add onto that our very own specific fantasies, kinks and boundaries and mix in someone else's personality on top of that - it becomes very specific. When it all clicks it is amazing, and when it does not, the search continues - which is is precisely why I am here.

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I have owned a few and use mine every morning, I just bought the "fleshlight pilot" it has a more discreet profile and not so obvious when left in plain sight. I am not hung like a pornstar but this model is way too tight, I use it without the case and it does the trick, and on the positive side - it easily accommodates 2 cocks for a hot dp experience.

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