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i am 53 y/o...i have been bi since i was 19...i have sucked a lot of cock since i was 19...both before i got married and after i got married...about 10 years ago at my insistance my wife bought herself a big black dildo...i would use it on her before we had sex....and when i did her doggie style i would suck on the dildo....well...one nite she saw me sucking on the dildo...but she did not say anything...a few weeks later she told me that she had saw me sucking the dildo...she asked me if i was gay or bi....my reply to her was "do you want me to suck a cock?"...her response was "NO"...and she added ...that if she finds out i am bi or gay she will divorce me...so i didnt deny i was bi...and she has left it at that...but i know she is watching me...she still suspects i am bi or gay...
Gunstar69
2056 posts since 2011-06-13
73 year old bisexual male from S/E Michigan outside of Detroit
2056 posts since 2011-06-13
73 year old bisexual male from S/E Michigan outside of Detroit
My wife doesn't know either. She doesn't know I jack off with other guys on Skype. I really enjoy seeing a hard cock like mine shoot a hot load of cum.
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Haven't sucked any cock yet but I've jacked alot with buds, done mutual, phone, cam and even fucked a guy once. My wife hates the idea of mastruabtion and to answer your question, she has no idea what I've been doing. She would divorce me in a heart beat if she ever found out and we have been married 30 years. to bad for her.
Its not necessarily any different for us gay guys. I know plenty of men whom I could have if their husbands gave them permission, but their husbands would also divorce them in a minute. On the flip side however, I have also been in NUMEROUS situations with coupled fellas who had an understanding. Sex is just sex...There is no committment or threat of abandonment. I was more or less the flavor of the week/month. Furthermore, I have met a small few guys whose wives did know about their activities and the ladies only cautioned about safe play and not starting a new relationship. So it is possible to have your cake and roll around in it too!
Are you man enough to ride this ride ?
I am sure most wifes /gfs dont know what u look at on the web right ?.
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headerfatty said:
I am sure most wifes /gfs dont know what u look at on the web right ?.
I am sure most wifes /gfs dont know what u look at on the web right ?.
Definitely true.
I experimented when I was 13 and have fantasized about it since....My wife has no clue other than I enjoy licking up after cumming on her. In the heat of the passion, she has whispered "suck my cock" and I am hopeful that will lead to a little role play where I suck her dildo while playing with her clit....Not something I am going to push, but think I will progress as she continues to bring it up...As far as wives knowing? Wouldn't we all love them knowing as long as they approve/support
Life is too short - taste its nectar
My wife knows about my bicuriosity. We will figure out how we move forward in this aspect of our life together.
LuckyBoy6 said:
Well, I must be in the minority here, so do let me know if anyone is in a similar position.
I came out as bi to my wife several years ago. I said I wanted to get intimate with a guy and she said fine. She even offered to photograph me for my profile on what is now a fairly inactive site. I've used one of the photos for my profile on here.
After meeting a guy, my wife suggested that she would like to meet him and since then we have met up as three for all sorts of stuff. And before you ask, NO this is NOT a threesome!! I'm lucky enough to enjoy sex with my wife AND my man. I stay away with him sometimes and my wife knows where I am and when it is. No secrets. I love sex with both and wouldn't go back to the way it was before. Very lucky I know, but I can't be married to the only woman who completely appreciates what I enjoy so much with another guy. Really?
Luckboy6
Well, I must be in the minority here, so do let me know if anyone is in a similar position.
I came out as bi to my wife several years ago. I said I wanted to get intimate with a guy and she said fine. She even offered to photograph me for my profile on what is now a fairly inactive site. I've used one of the photos for my profile on here.
After meeting a guy, my wife suggested that she would like to meet him and since then we have met up as three for all sorts of stuff. And before you ask, NO this is NOT a threesome!! I'm lucky enough to enjoy sex with my wife AND my man. I stay away with him sometimes and my wife knows where I am and when it is. No secrets. I love sex with both and wouldn't go back to the way it was before. Very lucky I know, but I can't be married to the only woman who completely appreciates what I enjoy so much with another guy. Really?
Luckboy6
So your wife is a lesbian. That's the only possible explanation. Lucky stiff!
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I think I have one of those wives who is about 95% clueless and likes it that way. She knows that I - in her words - "take matters into my own hand" when she's not ready for sex and I imagine that my late nights at the computer probably feed that belief. However, she doesn't ask and I don't tell. She has no idea of the few guys that I have been with - though I don't do that often because I don't want to bring any creepie crawlies home to her.
For now, I pretty much stay in my fantasy world and keep that locked up tightly in my mind (and an encrypted hard drive). She doesn't know all the big breasts, hot cocks, and beautiful sex scenes in there.
For now, I pretty much stay in my fantasy world and keep that locked up tightly in my mind (and an encrypted hard drive). She doesn't know all the big breasts, hot cocks, and beautiful sex scenes in there.
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mjollnir76 said:
She has no idea of the few guys that I have been with - though I don't do that often because I don't want to bring any creepie crawlies home to her.
She has no idea of the few guys that I have been with - though I don't do that often because I don't want to bring any creepie crawlies home to her.
Only need ONE guy for "creepie crawlies."
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My wife found out years ago when I thought that I shutdown our computer, but it "froze" when I walked away with shemale porn on the screen. She told me that she thought it was hot and scolded me for keeping secrets. Within a month, we were watching shemale porn together, we were having strap-on sex and I was crossdressing. She buys me dildos, makeup, women's clothing, has rented gay porn for me and encourages my online play. Her only rules are no phone or texting, no e-mail and no cheating. I have so much fun with my at home play that I don't want to stray.
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To: InHeat...You lucky guy. 
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My wife doesn't have a clue about my past and my sexuality. Although she knows I enjoy her strap on and dildos. I have had a girlfriend who knew and wanted to watch me with a guy, it was a hot threesome. My fuck buddy has a really understanding wife who knows we see each other and is ok with it and actively encourages us, she has watched and joined in and often say that she can't understand why my wife doesn't find two guys together hot.
My wife would freak out if she knew I liked jacking with guys. I showed her some pictures last week of guys rubbing cocks together and ask her if that was something she would like to watch me do. Of course she said no. Funny thing was that one of the pictures was of my cock rubbing another cock!! She didn't even notice it was me. Guess she doesn't really look at my cock...