I have several prostate massagers and a couple that vibrate. None of them even my wife's finger did not do for me what I have read. Maybe my prostate is to sensitive or it's just not for me.

Relax into it, and don't expect the Exorcist-style flailing you see in most Aneros videos each time you use it (particularly the first time), if at all. While I've had some rather intense sessions, with writhing around, I've never flopped around like I was being electrocuted, bu that's most of what I see in videos.

Enjoy!

Used mine just this morning. I have the regular one and then later got the big red one, cant remember what its called but its really BIG, even for an experienced user like me. I have never had the patience that others have and tried to have these cumless orgasms etc. I love using it while masturbating and also when I'm fucking the wife. I slide it in my ass and then fuck her, its a great item to have. and it also helps maintain your prostate health.

Agreed. I've never experienced anything like they show in the videos, but I have found that depending on your body position or which way you move you can produce interesting results. In particular I've found that rolling my hips gently side to side creates a very enjoyable sensation. And as others have said, wearing it during sex is very nice as well, though the first time I had to explain to my wife why I suddenly had a small tail