I am certain it is gold.
I do not know of a man that put a ring of gold on a womans finger that that did not happen to them.
Absorption happens slowly.

I am stilll waiting for the period of enlightenment they say women get in their 40swhen they want to fuck like rabbits. Personally I think that is a tall tale.

I feel sad that your wife has arthritis and cannot stand being touched. I think life must be hard for her and for you. I think it is really good that you want to enjoy sex with a woman, I think it is a really healthy thing for men. I'd like to send you a hug.

That is very sad, chronic pain is a tragedy

Can I get an invite ?

I think sexual desire is very much in the subconscious for women
If they need something a man a house a baby the desire for the man is there but once all of those boxes are ticked subconsciously the desire is no longer there

I got flamed for this opinion on a womens forum


Some blamed their useless husband and said they really desire their new man unlike their exhusbands

But of course they had been left or divorced and needed the new man

Give it a year or 2 and see how they desire the new guy then

I found myself in this situation and I guess this is why I am here now

Jerking instead of getting it on with my wife she would not even let me touch her

One day though after 2 years and 5 months of zero physical contact I had had enough

As we lay I bed one morning I just said this isnt right in a marriage I have had enough I dont want to live another 20 years like this even our honeymoon was bad Which it was

Low and behold she started to cuddle and we had a fantastic session together after a few weeks

It may not last

But in my desperation I did some research and there are married dating sites

Women who dont get enough from their husbands

For anyone who isnt getting the sexual fulfilment they need theres always this option

Maybe if your dried up and bitter wives are withholding from you the thought of you with another woman may kickstart something In your marriage

I am still prepared to walk if it dries up again

One thing you could possibly do is try and talk to her about trying a regimen of menopausal relief supplement's containing the key ingredient Black Cohosh. There is no hard scientific evidence to back this and of course you must consult a doctor but the result's from my wife taking such supplement's are phenomenal Hoping this help's.

I'm single but one thing I've noticed with married couples around me is that once kids inter the scenario the whole relationship with themselves and to some extent with the people they know seems to change just inter a different faze of their lives I supose and kids are hard work and lack of sleep in the early years leads to less sex then when the kids get older they don't get back to the way they were and I supose the novelty of the other person has worn off some what and of course financial commitments play a big part too. Life just gets in the way so its probably no surprise that some people both men and women alike lose intrest in sex plus health issues I'd imagine would play a big part and so one partner just ends up looking elsewhere for gratificationin. In the case of health issues you'd have to feel very sorry for the partner that gets left behind. What can I say life's a bitch and then you die.

I think though its a really important part of a relationship its what differentiates a marriage from just being friends

If the disinterested partner thinks its a case of the other putting up and shutting up they are deluded

Its not always the woman who loses interest either

Get on sites like mumsnet and there are plenty of unsatisfied women whos husbands cant keep up

Some I have seen though are women who lost interest and denied their husbands for years suddenly get their mojo back but husband says screw you i have found something else

They then regret their years of forcing celibacy on their husbands

apparently, women's sexual peak is at 18ish
men its at 50 apparently...

So why they lose interest... probably a serious timing issue between the sexes lol

Sort of wonder where these thousands of these Porn Stars are all hiding, don't you... :-)

Those gals have to pay the bills somehow

I dont imagine for a minute they actually enjoy it

No, a man's sexual peak as about 16 to 18 and a women's is about 30 to 40.

Because of YOU.

But what you posted is absolutely wrong mate.
funny
but bollix