the best meet ive had involved swapping our wives panties and wanking into them whilst enjoying their pics

Sounds great, I'm keen!

Yes as others have said, chat before hand and find out what you've got in common. The best ones I've had have been with guys I've chatted to, spoken to and wanked online with first so we've got a good idea of where to start. Its a great feeling to have a wank buddy.

Totally agree. Had many fantastic meets and have a core of 5 bate buds that I try to meet at least once a month with, individually when our schedules allow. Had a great meet back on 22nd April with 2 of them...it was awesome.

The nerves/fear before hand are huge - but the pay off is even bigger!

Never had the balls to try it yet. It all sounds great until the nerves kick in🙄

Id say they are totally worth it, nothing hornier in my opinion. But as a few people have said its finding someone into exactly what your into is tough.

Ive had a few meets from here othat were good but you find out quite quickly your into quite different things or as people have stated being let down last minute or you get to a stage your about to meet and then they go quiet, so you know its more of a fantasy for them. There is one guy i meet on here reguarly that immediately we are naked and just go for it with porn on a big screen and often mix poppers in so it gets very kinky where we do pretty much anything and is so good.

accomadation is always tough, we tend to book a dayroom hotel, but have done seperate rooms over night aswell. then after a session you can have a little break and go back at it after a few hours and get another one in the morning but took us a while to feel confident to do that. in conclusion yep definately worth it if you find the right person.

This is something that still makes me wonder. I'd love to try such meet some day, but

1) with a trustworthy person
2) person being into the same stuff as me
3) person I feel comfortable with
4) person who will not cross any limits or make anything crazy

Is it even possible that it'd be one guy, not four? How was your first wank meet, where you found them?

Very well worth it if they actually happen.

I have attempted to met with many, only successful with 3 so far.

Sometimes scheduling is an issue as two married guys can struggle to a) find a place and b) get time away from the Mrs.. Also you run into many flakes who have zero intention of actually meeting.

But of the 3 one was a one time deal and we just each stroked ourselves check out the other's Mrs. The 2nd was several meetings which went on to mutual stroking. The 3rd was a one time mutual stroke and hoping our schedules can coincide again to take it further.

So VERY well worth it and exciting if it works out, quite frustrating when it doesn't.

Love wank meets but like a lot of other people have said it's got to be with the right person, someone that has the same tastes as you. I'm a lot more choosy now about meets, don't rush into them at all now, more fun to chat and get to know someone. I like bi meets the most as well, makes it more intense. I's so they're totally worth it, just with the right person, which can be hard to find!

They make me nervous but that makes me so excited and horny!
Finding someone who is into similar is great, but I also like seeing what gets another guy hard and what makes him cum. And then cum to that for a change. Always shot my load and cum hard at them.
The accommodation and sorting a convenient time is the problem

I've had so so and fantastic. Never poor or bad.

I can acommodate but as so many have said it's fantastic with a perv of similar interests and who is happy to talk filth. Without that spark it's ok but not great.

I have always enjoyed them. Always nervous before meeting someone for first time but once we have met it is always a great relaxing experience to be there with someone else sharing material and fantasies. Of course there needs to be an interest in at least some of the same things and an agreement in your limits that both will respect but as an erotic experience it is on a par with anything I have ever tried.

I haven't done it for a while but keen to do it again!

Never done it actually but it's something I definitely wanna try... something gets me very hard just to think I will jerk with someone watching the same material in the same room and talk about it .. maybe I will cum in a minute and be embarrassed