the thing I find interesting in what you're saying that definitely is true in the world we live in.. is that when people, mainly hetersexual in this situation, refer to straight lovers getting married, its all about the love they have had for so long, they look absolutely adorable dancing and kissing like they do.. and walking down the street, seeing them holding hands, it's wonderful what love is about.. but they, the same people, will describe a gay couple in love and planning on marriage as all about the strange and deviant sex they are going to have, and how this will affect people in the area, especially, god forbid, any kids get wind of this happening and become contaminated with this unnatural love they say they have.
This separation of spirit and ideal in one to the other relationship is becoming more and more obvious as men are allowed to marry. I hear it all the time.. my mom hears it and she's appalled at the total lack of respect or regard these people have for others.
I get that it's hard for people to think of what the other must feel where attraction is separate and different but also sexual positions and the approach to many subjects.. and, of course, where kids are concerned in those loving, hopefully, households. But there needs to be a meeting of the minds, a try their shoe on for a change of heart.

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G0ys seem to be very anti anal sex but they don't address oral sex, from what I've read.
Personally, while I identify as gay, I'm happy to just jack off self/mutual, frot or cock to cock, and play orally. Don't care how the other guy identifies or labels himself.
Just give me a younger (20s or 30s, 40s) smooth man who likes playing with and sharing his cock and balls.
In person or cam.

I see myself as bi, but don't want a relationship with a guy or much intimacy. But love giving head.

I consider myself straight, but I have often thought what it would be like to give a handjob to a guy...Would his cock feel the same as mine does in my own hand.
Maybe thats why I first put myself down as Hetro, but then changed to curious. I may never live out my desire(?) but it has caused a few eruptions, thinking about it...

I think we're too fixated on labels. If something turns you on, go for it. I love woman but am turned on by male bodies too. Does that make me bi/ gay/ g0y? I don't really care.

Didn't think I'd get as many responses to my original post, but it does offer different points of view and opinions. If anyone remembers general psychology fight or flight response I've seen it that way. You go with your gut when something doesn't feel right to you or try something and be surprised you actually like or don't but at least you can say you tried and found out it wasn't all it was cracked up to be.

I normally consider myself straight. My first experiences were with other guys. A friend of mine had a treehouse that was a frequent sausage party. I'm not shy about talking about it.

As far as it goes though, I don't pursue guys. I don't find them to be all that attractive or interesting. But if the right one drops his pants at the adult bookstore, or asks me to, I'll usually play along. I guess that this makes me bi by definition but it's not an urge that I have. I don't crave cock. But if one's there and it's as hard as mine, and if it doesn't make me wish mine was limp, hey, make me an offer.

I've only ever had one gay 'affair' in my life. A much older man who had a wife at home who was no longer interested in sex. He went to the adult video arcade in order to find people to get him off. He believed that it wasn't cheating if it was with another guy. So he'd go find a guy. Before he moved to Arizona, he found me for a little while.

We didn't kiss or cuddle or snuggle or do anything romantic. He'd bring me a pair of panties, sometimes stockings, I'd put them on. We'd watch a little porn, always straight porn, do a little exploring, and when we were done, he'd go home. No good night kiss, not even a handshake. Just a 'So, same time next week?" sort of thing. And we did everything. Oral, anal, I did a little cross-dressing. Didn't feel weird about it and it didn't 'turn me gay'. It was just two guys, horny as fuck, not shy or embarrassed, getting each other off.

The only carry over is that after him, I had a girlfriend who asked if she could bring over a strapon and fuck me. Before him, I would have said no. I said yes. Came harder with her than I did with him.

Sexuality isn't about ticking boxes or fitting labels.It's doing what interests you and what you like.
I would say yeah you can be straight and be into jerking wiht other guys or even love cock.I have met plenty of straight guys like that.Once they open that door,it unleashes something,they get to act out a lot of fantasies they have repressed.These kind of guys I would still consider straight as they are not attracted to guys at all-just to cock/maybe ass and a lot of them like getting fucked too...which might hit the spots that the gf or mrs doesn't reach.
Many of these guys (not all) are really not into the idea of kissing or have any other attraction to men...they just enjoy a bit of fun :p

I'm the same way. Not abnormal I think. Greg

You're right, Goyz do support the idea of intimate pleasuring between men and their preferred method is frot. They promote the idea of male bonding and friendship and activities which exemplify these friendships. They do support the idea of oral pleasure but emphasize that personal risk is greatly increased. These things are in fact perfectly natural.
It's worth saying that when you see a GOY in public there aren't any visible signs of it. They are very masculine gentlemen.

The term 'goys' is the dumbest thing I've ever heard of.
Kinsey laid it out all pretty simply in his excellent work...everybody falls somewhere on a spectrum between 100 % heterosexual and 100% homosexual (talking sexually,not romantically and not including asexuals!)
Fact is most guys are constantly horny and fun with men is great and uncomplicated :p

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Over the years I've become more comfortable with my desire to stroke/suck cocks. I think I watched so much porn of hard cocks shooting cum that it really turns me on now! I have zero desire for anal (ouch!) or for kissing... but do enjoy rubbing cocks together, and sucking/stroking a cock until it cums.

I still love women... and my ideal situation would be to find a woman who enjoys getting together with a couple of guys and letting us all do some sucking and stroking... I want to combine women with guys by stroking a cock until it cums on her tits and nipples, and then licking it off... mmmmm!

Over the years I've become more comfortable with my desire to stroke/suck cocks. I think I watched so much porn of hard cocks shooting cum that it really turns me on now! I have zero desire for anal (ouch!) or for kissing... but do enjoy rubbing cocks together, and sucking/stroking a cock until it cums.

I still love women... and my ideal situation would be to find a woman who enjoys getting together with a couple of guys and letting us all do some sucking and stroking... I want to combine women with guys by stroking a cock until it cums on her tits and nipples, and then licking it off... mmmmm!