When I cum I have a slowish recovery time, I'd say 30 mins to an hour if I'm honest, it's the urge, not the mechanics. I usually hate a bodged cum as I like to build up to a memorable release, infact I've been practicing edging a lot. Anyone think a ruined little cum would help or hinder a long masturbatory session? Really what my goal is is a long session with multiple cums but I'm trying to find a way to get round the problem of one cum, fall asleep!

yes ruined orgasms can help you keep going. Also gives you some cum to play with

it might take a little practice tho... after a ruined orgasm it is quite easy to push it too far too quick for another one shorty after it

This would be my problem, I still react like I've properly ejaculated. Any tips on how to edge but not blow but blow a tiny bit? Lol.

iv Pm'd you.

Practice definitely. Get to know what your edge is so you dont go to far. get to know how long to wait before you go again and how much you can do beofre pushing over the edge.

accept you will make mistakes part of the fun.

watch some videos of ruined orgasms for tips and techniques