Nothing on wedding night or on week-long honeymoon. That was a taste of things to come--as it were: we had had sex 3 times in the last 10 years--all in the first year--and she had to be drunk every time. And not even intercourse: she has hated cock since she had to suck the penis of her BF's dad when she was 10, so when we had relations, she insisted I wear underwear and I was only allowed to eat her--no intercourse. She has never seen my cock, let alone touch it. I thought she would loosen up over the years with TLC from me, but I guess sexual abuse runs deep in some people. Sigh.

What was it like when u were dating?

See a counselor ASAP.

There are all kinds of circumstances, but I suspect that men who get it frequently aren't giving their wife something very basic that she needs. Probably to feel loved, cherished, nurtured and safe. Make sure those needs rae met, that she knows you care about her heart and watch your love-making soar!

My wife is good to go almost any time. 2X a day is fine with her.