I tried a few times and just can't seem to get the hang of it. I see videos of guys cumming buckets while getting a prostrate masssge, but it's not happening for me.

Do you guys ever give yourselves prostate massages? What do you use? Actual prostrate massager or a regular dildo/vibrator?

Lots of lube.
Poppers.
Start with a sex toy.
Switch to fingers.

I haven't had much luck with my fingers. Aneros didn't work for me, BUT, the best thing I've tried is a tool that was originally made at a back massager. It's called the Backnobber II. Looks like a big plastic "S". Works great and it'll put you in heaven.

Got mine at a local store; but you can order on Amazon.

I have a prostate massager vibrator. I love the feel of it up my ass but it doesn't quite reach the prostate, so I'm missing out on the full sensation.
I'll get a bigger one next time.

cant seem to find it with my fingers but my toys can make me ooze with cum

I have not cum just by using a massager on my Prostate but can get my semen flowing quite well enough to half fill a Tequela Glass

Try one of these!!!

https://blowfish.com/catalog/prostate-stimulators

Try E-Stim. It's way better than I thought it would be. It's better than valium, I become so mellow and happy and can edge for hours before I cum and eat it.

I have issues with my fingers, but love a toy up my ass. My favorite is actually a cheap plastic vibrator. It's about 10 inches, which gives me enough length for a handle or to rest against something while I jack.

With it buzzing away my orgasms are intense! I can easily hit myself in the face when I cum.

Lying on my side I can just about do it with my middle finger.
This leads to a steady flow of clear fluid and pulsating contractions which I guess equate to a vaginal orgasm.

Eventually I use my orher hand to work my foreskin and ejaculate.

Lucky, myself I have had my prostate removed for cancer. So if you have one just be thankful and enjoy it every day if you can. Jacking of without one is not only harder but less satisfying, no cum I miss cum so much.

I have to hide my toy, and I'd never want a dildo found so I created my own toy from the handle of a garden shovel.
I get filled up and my prostate gets massaged really well.

Oh hell yea, Invest in a vibrator...worth every penny nd feels AMAZING! Get one w multiple/different vibration patterns u'll never leave the house! Makes my dick drool hard core.