If you do pay for sex what is your motivation for doing so. I am in a sexless marriage and am happy with that, but I do seek the intimacy that goes with sex.
I have been very surprised to discover that the ladies I have been with are very nice people and friendly.
This question applies to ladies also and your comments are welcome also.

I've only paid for sex a few times and to be honest I've never really been happy with the results. Maybe I'm not paying enough but I found the experience mostly impersonal and rushed. Sort of a hurry up and get it over with thing. Sounds like you had a better time than I did. My motivation was seeking more exciting sex. My wife is pretty plain Jane.

I used to, quite a lot. I am highly sexed and the wife isnt. I liked to pick up street girls as the seediness of it really turned me on - girls were usually a bit rough, car sex, no messing about was hot for me. Too high risk now with increased police and the Eastern Europeans getting a reputation for attacking punters and robbing them.

Have tried massage parlours but didnt like that. Have used a few girls off the net over the years with varying experiences. More expensive does not equal better!

Paid $50 for a blow job once just to say I have paid for it She swallowed and her hubby took pictures

Now in my mid 40s in shape with a vasectomy I find it easy to find sex with a man or woman

Before all the covid hell, I used to pay for a lovely young (i think she was about 19 or so) transexual girl about once a month, she had been taking hormones for many years, so had a lovely petite smooth body with small firm tits, and a lovely little cock, which would get rock hard, and spurt huge loads of cum. she would come over for a couple of hours at a time, we would cuddle/chat for most of the time finishing off with oral mostly.

If you are Law Enforcment, what I post below is fictional.

The first time I was with a hooker I was nervous. I showed up to the hotel and she texted her room number. While I was walking up to the door (3pm), she was coming down the hall from the front desk wearing a thin robe and nothing under it. I was thinking we'd get caught or reported because she was obviously a hooker. We met at the door, went into the room, and she immediately pushed me into a corner chair and got my pants down to suck my cock. She looked up after about a minute and said "Well you're not a cop." She was and excellent cocksucker. I fucked her in a few different positions with a condom and then stroked with her lips around the tip. I was laying on my back stroking with one hand and the other hand on the back of her head. As I blew my load, I gripped her hair and started pumping. It was so much cum that it filled her mouth and started to come out of her nose. That was $80 and the only one that didn't get the money up front. Though the rest did cop checks. Which is they grab your cock while you grab their tits. Cops aren't allowed to do that apparently.

The second hooker was a true PAWG. It was my birthday and I wasn't getting sex from my wife so I spent the $200. She wasn't as good at sucking cock but doggystyle with her was mesmerizing. If I close my eyes, I can still see her ass cheeks rippling as she bounced back and forth on my cock. I pulled the condom off and sprayed her ass.

The third hooker was amazing. Face of an angel, perky c-cup tits and toned legs and ass. But she had a john that paid her a ton of money to cut her hair every month. I remember the first time we were together we got naked on the bed and I looked down and she had the most picture perfect pussy you'd ever see. I looked back up at her with a shocked look on my face and she was a little embarrassed but said "Yeah, I know". I banged that pussy in every position I could as long as I was in position to see it while we fucked. The first time, ended with me titty-fucking her until I gave her a facial. The second time, I pulled out from missionary with just enough time to remove the condom as she wrapped her mouth around it. ($100 & $100)

Hooker #4 wanted more money. I didn't want to try to take back what I already gave and I didn't want to make a scene so I left. Cunt. ($125)

Hooker #5. Oh what a beauty. 5'11" Long brown hair. About 22 and perfect skin. No apparent drug abuse or anything like that. Her body was nice, not as hot as #3 but she was damn fine. The difference maker with her was her pussy wasn't as picture perfect as #3 but the grip that pussy had on my cock was magical. I normally take a long time, with a condom even longer, but she rode my cock for 5 minutes and I blew my load. $150 was well spent.

I've been using prostitutes for the past 8 years - UK here, so it's legal.

The core reason is that I've had the best sex of my life with the hottest women I've ever been with. Porn level encounters with gorgeous girls doing the dirtiest things for my pleasure. Plus threesomes, gangbangs - stuff you could only dream about if you live a normal life.

Seeing a prostitute - at least, one worth paying for, there are lots of time and moneywaster out there - is like briefly stepping into a world where the only thing that matters is you and your happiness. I'm paying these girls to look after me on a level unmatched by any civilian female, on a basis where it's agreed upon there is nothing more I have to give them than the cash on arrival. For once in your life, you can just relax, have fun and not worry about anything else other than having fun. It's the best, and I'd recommend it to anyone who (and this is important) has the spare income to be able to support it.

If you take someone out for drinks and dinner that is not a sex worker, you're still paying for sex.

I haven't for many years, but had a run of 2-3 years where I picked up prostitutes regularly in my home town red light district.
Why? Good question - I was in a relationship at the time, but I'd always had a fantasy about it from early teens. Control thing I think. Getting girls to do things. Whatever, Once I did it the first time the tap was turned on.
Often think back to those nights and the various girls.
The risk of being caught was part of the thrill, but terrifies me now thinking back. One night I found the back alley I was returning a girl to blocked by a police car - she leant over and flashed the headlights at it!!! The police car actually drove off and the copper waved an apology...
Being caught would have been end of relationship probably the sack too but I did it many times.
Eventually CCTV and police crackdown put a stop to it.
Often considered escorts but just doesn't have same appeal

While I was in my early 20's needed money and places to stay got paid for it. That was years ago.

Never have - most likely never will..

i to am in a marriage with hardly any sex when she does its bog standard sex i like French kissing but she not interested and would never try it when she does promise i know she will not usually follow through and its mainly at night with the lights off. i don't want an affair to risky and if either of us develops feelings than that can complicate no strings sex with an escort you can do things that you wife gf would not do have sex with someone half your age and fuck women with different figures and breasts sizes.

one bad experience with an escort is when i turned up at her block of flats having to wait outside for 10 mins and being spotted sitting in my car by someone living in the block when she let me in the flat the flat was dark dingy and a real dump i paid and stripped naked and she went in to another room and it felt like a long time before she was ready she was not ugly but not as good in the flesh as the pictures of her she had enhanced breasts im no expert to touching fake tits be hers felt rock hard like fondling concrete blocks her pussy lips also seemed saggy but she did give a good massage with plenty of playing with my balls and a good bj she also made all the right noises when i was fucking her.

Did it recently (Last week)

Problem is its fine at the time, especially if you're fulfilling fantasy you couldn't otherwise (Japanese girl) but after that you're 150 notes out and its only slightly better than a wank over say Hitomi Tanaka in then end lol

I prefer wanking to be honest but yeah I wouldn't discount it entirely.

i agree in part even though i get better high from wanking i always feel a need for sex.

sometimes it depends on if its a women from a parlour they usually want you to shoot your load so they can move onto the next client i find independent escorts are better lots of french kissing they let you play with their pussy etc