I've been trying to find a local person to stroke with but really with no luck for a few years now. Are there other sites or boards people recommend for best success?

i hate to tempt fate, but I think I've done it!
Met a guy on here, we chatted a bit, over the mail system, then agreed to meet, mainly so we could make sure we got on and had things in common. We did that last week, I showed pics of my wife, he liked her, likewise i find his wife very sexy! We are hopefully gonna meet up next week or shortly after for some mutual jerking and wife appreciation.
Probably took me getting on for a year and two attempts at registering on this site to find someone, lots of fantasists and timewasters, but got there in the end!!
Keep trying mate, there are some decent people out there.

Ben

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I've found buds at the gym, in the showers or steam room. Also had some luck at porn theaters and once got a day pass to an all male nude campground. Had a lot of fun there. Wish it was closer, I'd go back all the time.

I agree its a challenge, i am a little different as I had the same buddy for years starting in childhood. We are out there normal guys who enjoy a good mutual stroke session. Number one advantage is being able to host. I have several and met them all right here at JC
1) chat first and if all seems good try to cam helps break the ice
2) By all means meet first for coffee or a drink
3) be flexible on a time if possible, remember most will be men who have been cutoff by the wife but have been jackers there entire life, most of mine had a buddy when younger and remember the fun.
4) Make it clear from the beginning what you will and won t do, most of the weirdos will show there colors well before a meet if you chat enough.

With difficulty and it mat depend upon where you live. If you are in a big city or large town it may be easier because of the facilities that exist. Where I am in a very rural area of small villages and where you are known to all around it is impossible to fond someone local. C2C is not a satisfactory alternative to being in the same room as another male and having his dick in your hand.

In the days of yore Craig's List, these days you might try Double List. Plus people have success meeting on this very board, I've met one guy and had a fun time.

I head to AVN every year in Las Vegas. National porn convention. lots of like minded. wear a local pro sports team hat or shirt to get convo going at the convention or local strip clubs.

The biggest problems that I have found is that guys seem to want to just talk about it instead of actually getting out there and doing it! Why do they insist on having all your life history before meeting? It is not as though you are going to get married and ride off into the sunset together. Then, you get bored of the endless mundane chat and don't bother chatting any more. Then you become the time waster!

I don't unfortunately. Over 50 only interests me and I cant host limits opportunities.

my first Jo bud i found on here. Then it was craigslist, and now doublelist. I personally like when guys just want to meet pretty quickly. I can tell when they are newbies. But if you post an ad, say your stats, if you can host or not, and what you're comfortable with. If you're replying to an ad, put your stats, info, a pic (i personally don't show my face), and what you want to do. The less back and forth the better. And get a kik if you don't have one.
Ultimately do whatever you feel comfortable with if it's your first time, it's nerve wrecking at first sometimes

I am still looking to meet, but am making some contacts.. it is not easy tho, I had a regular bud before moving, now the search for another regular is on.

in search of the holy grail

it is really not easy at all. i have been interested in camming, chat, phone, in person, but it often falls through, partially my fault quite honestly.

well surprise surprise! It came to nothing.
i@m still looking!