Hi.

Heard alot about wank meets , no one seems to say if they work or are any good or worth it ?

I like the thought of it , even though im straight , reckon chance to chat about things were into would be quite liberating , and a good perv

They're worth it if you're into wanking with another guy. I am and meets like that are fun.

Whether they work is down to the people involved. I've planned a few wank meets only to be stood up. Annoying when you're horny and want to empty your balls! I've had more success just traveling out to places known for guys cruising and taking it from there.

Only caveat there is that if you're only want to knock one out, make it clear. Flopping your junk out in a cruising spot could see someone think you're looking for more than a wank buddy.

Most of the time they are not worth it. People will want to meet and then flake and youll never heard from them again. Youll deal with this A LOT. But once in a blue moon you might find someone who will actually meet up. Then you have to determine if youre comfortable with that person, or if they are some nut who you really dont want to be around, or are pushy and want to do more than what you are comfortable doing.

I've had lots of wank meets. None have been perfect, but a few have been good enough to convince me that the right wank meet with the right wank bud would be fantastically good fun.

The two main issues are 1) finding someone to actually meet, and 2) finding someone on exactly the same wavelength as yourself.

What has been said above is 100% true. Lots of people flake out, ghost you, or otherwise excuse themselves at the last minute. It's also common to meet people who want more than just a wank. It pays to be patient, to identify exactly what you want to do before you start looking, to be absolutely explicit and up-front about what you're looking for and what you're not looking for, and to pay attention to any signals you get that someone is not on the same wavelength as you.

The best places I've used to find guys to wank with are porn cinemas and swingers clubs (ones with lots of porn playing). At places like that you have the advantage of only meeting people who are brave enough to commit to that kind of environment, plus you can have a play with people without any commitment and decide if you want to exchange details and get in contact again for future sessions.

I was all ready to post my own response, but it seems unnecessary when I can just repost this one - pretty much sums it up for me, too.

Am just curious if the porn cinemas you mentioned are in the UK and where.

Thanks for your replies guys. Good advice. Thank you

The other thing to be concious of, is that a lot of people don't want to meet in their home, they want to meet at yours. This is quite usual for a lot of married guys who aren't willing to run the risk but love cock.

Going by what ive read ill probably give it a miss

Totally agree with what was said above;
1)You have to be on the same page for porn (or whatever you're using), this fundamental
2) you both have to be into the same activities,
3) you have to click/be on the same wavelength otherwise it won't work.

Get it right and it's amazing.

Have to agree with what everyone else says, can be hard to get them set up, but I've really enjoyed them with the right person. I like to chat a good few times before I do them now, want to make sure we're into the same things and want to do the same things at the meet. I like bi meets the most as well, means we can be more pervy together, I'd say they're worth it if you can find the right person to do them with.

The number of requests stating 'cannot accommodate' far exceeds those that can.

They are worth it. LIke most have said finding the right guy can be tricky. I can pick them out easily now, just off of a messsage or two. But often you'll talk to guys who are super nervous (understandable), or like the fantasy, but never follow through. Hosting is tricky sometimes. Car play is a decent way to start if neither can host. You just have to use your best judgement, and state as much info as you can in your ad, or in your reply within your discretion level

Out of all the complaints about meeting up, this is probably the most understandable, though. Even if there isn't a pesky wife or gf in the house, most guys simply don't want a complete stranger in their home, no matter how much they've been chatting with them online. That can be very dangerous, because you really don't know this person AT ALL.

Go old school. Get on cam, establish a pervy rapport. See where that takes you.