my wife doesnt do vaginal sex as much but is happy to do hand jobs

So are we going to try again maybe get some nice bonners first lol.

Same here. One day I might be brave enough to try. But losing my marriage isn't wort it. Will carry on fantasising

So the place is full of middle-aged blokes not getting any "hole"?

So,why are you here?

I don't get involved in the whole relationships game! People are so mercurial and random...

I have put up with that crap for 42 yrs. I learned to adapt.....I jack off everyday even if I get some. I am super horny all the time.....
Your wife just does not want sex with you.....that is the reality.... unless there is something physically wrong with her. If she masturbates, then it is not that she does not want sex......it is just not with you......be real. When she jacks off, do you think she is thinking of sour dough bread recipes to jack to??
So instead of feeling sorry for myself, I still jack off every day at least once and I have not stepped out on her today.....that is the only way I know to put it.....
I told her 20 years ago I was not going to go the rest of my life without sex, and I left the message of either you can take care of me, or someone else will.....
So I have not done anything with another person yet today, but the day is still young.
If you think ill of me, so be it.....I do not whine about not getting any.....I do get sex.

I am very fortunate that my wife gives me great BJs and HJs about 3 times a month but I still enjoy JO about 8-9 times a month.

pm if u r married like me and want to join a group of married buds who sharing their lust for female beauty while they jerking all together on cam to cam (must cam and share legal hot pics)