hello,

My wife and I do not have a great sex life. She never was a sexual person, so sex is rare and not that common. This has pushed me more into porn and jerking. In my porn habits Ive watched more and more bi and gay content. I seem to get more and more excited watching guys. I want to try something with a guy, however to afraid to activity look. Is anyone in a similar situation?

hi,
in the same situation here. I love watching cocks and bi porn and even imagining those cocks im my wifes pussy.

Sharky, I'm the same. Imagining those cocks in my wifes pussy gets me hard and I especially like watching cuckold porn now. Love to see wives fucked by other men as the husband watches and records the action.

Same here. Love to watch cuckold porn, specially where husband records. Would love to put other man's cock into my wifes pussy. I sniff her used panties, watch cuck porn and imagine I'm there to help and play with a cock of a man that fucks her. I cum so fast.

Completely understand and can relate. Exactly the same situation with me.

Same, especially since the chance of connecting with another woman is socially dangerous. They talk among each other. Bi and gay posters here are implying that they are interested and would hide a connection.

You're in the UK so try bibritain.co.uk
I was in the same situation. Nothing from my wife and growing more and more curious. I went to bibritain (which is free), searched on members in my local area and after getting to know one guy in particular, and in the same situation, we decided to meet up.
We enjoyed almost 4 years of getting naked together, just wanking and sucking. I was 68 and he was 72, so its never too late. Sadly he downsized and moved closer to family, but great fun while it lasted.

I'm not married but I've met a lot of married guys who are in a similar situation. Most of them just have an interest in cock and masturbation, which I think is pretty logical. Didn't all guys kind of develop a fetish for wanking before sex?

It doesn't really mean anything about your sexuality, it's not so different to any other specific interest when it comes to sex, but I do think it's the most common of fetishes.

When you think about it almost all straight porn focuses a lot on the man and his dick. If most guys didn't have an interest in cock wouldn't most "straight" porn be lesbian porn?

There are a lot of men out there interested in exploring cock play with other guys. No one can make you find the motivation to look for them, though. You need to do that yourself. Once you have I think you'll probably find it easier and easier to explore that side of your sexuality.

Life is short, so jump in. What's the worst that could happen?

Maybe look for cruising locations near you. There are a few sites out there that list places. I personally think BuddyBate is a good one for looking for local guys seeking cock play specifically, so maybe starting out with masturbation would be the easiest way.

Good luck and enjoy the adventure

Watching gay porn is a definite factor in making me the avid cocksucker I am today.

Porn does not make you bi or gay. You just are or are not. I notice all of you the replied label yourself bi-curious in your profile

No they didnt. There are bisexual, heterosexual, and no labels at all who have responded to this topic. Methinks you are biased.

I agree very biased

Porn certainly helps to establish visuals for what arouses you. But you searched for it, so that curiosity was already a part of you. Straight guys dont just search for cock on the Internet. If they did then they are already bi-curious at the least

Similar story here. Not presently in a relationship and actively looking. Yeah, it's a big step but my guess is you'll know it's right if the opportunity comes along.

This may not be the place to look though. You'll get a lot of emails that go something like "hey, how's it hanging bro?" which are easily dismissed.

But JnC does offer dialog between members that helps to make sense of the bi-curious side of things.